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Chris

Real People - Real Church - Real God

About Me

I live near Mt. Vernon, OH. I've been married for 22 years. My wife and I have two sons who are 16 and 14. They have a dog and 3 cats. I claim no ownership of the animals!
I also strive be real. The person you see at church will be the same person you see at work or out shopping or playing sports or even at my home. I’ll never fit some people's idea of what a "minister" should be, but those whom God gives to work with in ministry will see someone absolutely real. Struggling with life's issues... succeeding and failing just like any other. Hopefully, even in my failures they'll see what it means to be a believer who, with God's help, lives a life faithful to our calling.


Authentic Christianity:
This is a phrase that I've just recently started using. But it's something that has deep meaning for me. For years I've struggled to get people to be real with one another. We've gone to church and seen the beauty pageants or the manufactured services and none of it is real. It's all just a show for the masses. I'm long called this "plastic Christianity." It's just not real. No one is like that in real life!
Well I'm tired of it. I want to return to the days when faith was fresh; when we didn't know we had to hide the darkness inside of us from everyone. To the time when we were naive enough in our faith to just say what we thought and asked the questions that challenged the patience of the churchified.
I've discovered in the ministry God has let me have that every one needs someone and someplace where they will be accepted just as they are, for whom they are and where they will find the love of God being walked out every day in the imperfect ways that people always love. Yet, even though our ability to love is imperfect it's still God loving through us.
One of the Apostles in the Bible said, "Where I am weak, God is strong." While we might not love perfectly as human beings, God can make up for our imperfection and turn our attempt to love into the very thing that's needed in your life!

My Interests

I'm interested in people. I’m interested in discovering the thing a person needs to understand or to receive in order to find God's truth for their lives.

That's My God by S. M. Lockridge ~ longer version

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I'd like to meet:

I would love to meet my online friends from Bible Answers Ministry on Pal Talk. Some of whom I've known for four or five years and have never been privileged to meet.

I would love to meet my father, Richard (Dick) Baron Benefield, whom I've never met. Even more than meeting him, I'd love to meet his children. But, I wrote him several years ago and he never responded.

Music:

I like rock and roll from the hard rock of Pink Floyd to adult contemporary of Barry Manilow. Country music is also a favorite of mine. I’m especially fond of Alan Jackson, Big and Rich and Sarah Evans.

But I love praise and worship music; especially newer music by groups like Sonic Flood that have a bit of an edge.

Movies:

Action adventure, Sci-Fi and Fantasy are my favorite types of movies.

Television:

After reading above you KNOW Sci-Fi channel has to be tops on my list. I love the new Battlestar Galactica and Stargate even without Richard Dean Anderson.

I also watch American Idol, Boston Legal, and Smallville.

Books:

I read military Sci-Fi for escape. I'm a fan of John Ringo, Jerry Pournelle, David Weber, Chris Bunch, David Drake, Lois McMaster Bujold, Elizabeth Moon and many others.

But I also enjoy books on apologetics, small group ministry (connecting), and developing a passionate heart for Christ.

I highly recommend Dave Browning's book "Deliberate Simplicity" as a ministry paradigm that will rock your world.

Heroes:

Would you believe I have no heroes? OK, so I do have a few.

Pastor Bob Stennett who showed me how to love God's people, how to walk through the fire of their lives and how to remain in God's love all the while.

Pastor David McVey who, with his wife Lola, have my deepest love and respect even if I haven't been in touch in far too many years.

Ralph Neighbors who pioneered cell church ministry and changed my outlook on how church can happen.

My Uncle Tony DeLozier who was more of a father to me than any other man and is now with the Lord.

Jesus Christ for taking this fallen man, renewing him to wholeness and restoring him to a life like no other.

My Blog

Why are our groups so different?

At CTK we are trying to become an organic, relational movement, instead an institutional, attractional ministry. Functioning organically means taking a different approach on various issues, but none m...
Posted by Chris on Mon, 28 Jan 2008 03:45:00 PST

From the desk of Dave Browning

dMail: Answers After I teach I often ask if there are any questions or comments. I like the immediate feedback, and the questions steer me toward future topics. When I had a time of Q&A after a p...
Posted by Chris on Wed, 26 Dec 2007 05:38:00 PST

Management

Management Leadership versus Management. What is the difference? According to Olan Hendrix, 1. Leadership is a quality, while management is a science. 2. Leadership provides vision, while managemen...
Posted by Chris on Mon, 27 Aug 2007 01:25:00 PST

CTK Mt. Vernon is finally going to start!

Praise God!  We've finally begun!  This past Sunday evening marked a gathering at my house where I shared God's vision for CTK ohio with those we had invited.  There was resounding...
Posted by Chris on Tue, 07 Aug 2007 08:09:00 PST

Living Beneath Your Talent

In the movie "A Bronx Tale" the character played by Robert DeNiro tells his son, "The saddest thing in the world is wasted talent." Too many of us are guilty of thiswe live beneath our talent. We set...
Posted by Chris on Mon, 23 Jul 2007 05:33:00 PST

Impulse Control

When it comes to success, character is more important than intelligence. Walter Mischel is a research psychologist at Stanford University. He tested children at age four for "impulse control." This ch...
Posted by Chris on Tue, 27 Mar 2007 02:27:00 PST

List of Ideas Critical to CTK's Ministry

People are the ministers. The pastors are to equip the people for the work of the ministry. Small groups are the basic building block. Groups provide friendship, growth, encouragement and outreach. ...
Posted by Chris on Tue, 13 Mar 2007 08:59:00 PST

Blessing From Dave Browning to the pastors of CTK at the Arrows Out 2006 Conference

May you be filled with God's love, so much so that you spread the fragrance of Christ wherever you go. May you do everything in love. May you understand deeply that love is the essential characterist...
Posted by Chris on Fri, 02 Feb 2007 05:33:00 PST

Deep Thoughts... or not.

I've been meaning to write for a week or so, but keep getting distracted with life.  I've especially wanted to say a few words about Ted Haggard. I've known Ted in a very cursory manner.  I ...
Posted by Chris on Sun, 03 Dec 2006 06:00:00 PST

Critics

I'm sorry I've been gone for so long.  I've been working a "real" job and it has been kicking my butt.   But, hopefully I'm a bit more acclimated to standing for 9 to 10 hours a day and...
Posted by Chris on Mon, 20 Nov 2006 02:37:00 PST