Thousands, from the mundane to the sublime. Dancing works right now.
I think it'd be nice to be in a relationship, but most women fall dreadfully short of my criteria. Insecurity and being a flake are not attractive to me. I'm not about to be a counselor you can't even show up for. And then I look at the borefriends of so many women and I cannot fathom what they see in them. Wearing a baseball cap backwards, smoking weed, and 'hanging with the 'bros'' sound like the worst possible time in the history of attempting to not hate oneself. Or that wallflower stance, when guys hold their beer halfway up their chest and bob their head as if they're part of something other than being a moron. Yet, women date these guys. Granted, they're usually not women I'd be interested in anyway, but it's remarkably stupid regardless.
Perhaps you wonder what I'd do different? I'd be myself, for one. That idea seems to elude most guys. I see it all the time--they put on such a front for whatever girl, only to rear their true selves later on, where the girl loathes what she sees. I'm also not desperate. Too often, people date for the sake of dating someone. Such a dumb idea--incredibly retarded actually. Both of you are delaying the inevitable, for one, plus deterring those who would probably be a much better match with each other. Then again, if you enter into commitments 'just because', I probably wouldn't want to date someone like you.
This all begs the question, "What do I like?" Probably not you. Let's face it--the odds are stacked against you. But it really doesn't matter, because I don't have a 'type' nor do I believe in such ludicrous thinking. If I like you, I like you. It won't matter if you have one leg, drink like a fish, and have an obsession with Yahtzee. I can't explain what I like, which I obviously couldn't do in the just mentioned scenario, because real love is tricky like that. If I like you because you have a good job, then I really just like your good job and not you. If I think you're hot because you wear Chanel, I like your Chanel and not you. If I think you're amazing because we like the same kind of music, I just like your music and not you. Why don't people understand this? I'd rather like someone because of them, and nothing else should matter. Ideally.
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Probably much greater in scope than your tastes allow. Not that below indicates this, but I felt like adding some album art, so here goes some of my faves from this year, so far:
This is where I'm pickier than usual. There are no defining characteristics of films I'm interested in. That being said, I gravitate towards documentaries, foreign films, and classics from the beginning of cinema through the present. However, once again for the sake of increasing the amount of visuals on here, I've posted some of my favs:
I prefer foreign satellite television wherever possible, particularly from Arab nations.
Almost entirely non-fiction.
Relying upon others is tantamount to disabling yourself.