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LadyA

The only thing constant is change..so keep it moving.

About Me

2007 - While the term is overused and cliche now, I've adopted it as my mantra: UPGRADE. In my world, this means, challenging myself to get to the next level, and eliminating and or reducing situations/people that do not bring me satisfaction or joy.

This also means recognizing the blessings in a bad situation. In other words, squeezing the lemon to make some lemonade.
Lastly, it means appreciating and celebrating the things in life that do bring joy. Right now, this is my family and friends.
I'm that girl that you think is a total dork; however, you come to love my dorkiness b/c you realize that you don't have to try to impress me, or put on some front in front of me. I work hard, I play hard. I volunteer. I like solidarity. I'm self-reliant and self-dependent (notice I didn't say independent). I have trust issues. I have a sensitive digestive system. I don't like being told what to do or how to do it - except sexually (yeah I said it, and what?) I have been called a n*gger before, it's not *that* easy to get over. I like yogurt. I LOVE the waffle house fiesta omlette. I get lonely sometimes. I don't cry often, but I feel pain often. I adore Atlanta. I *heart* my friends. I have good credit. I don't get angry often because I don't love often. You can only be upset at those you truly love; otherwise you shouldn't care.

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My Interests

Exploring new things. I have a list of things to do before I die - please offer suggestions if you so feel inclined! Traveling:

I'd like to meet:

This question is a bit overrated. I'd like to meet whoever God puts into my life. Building with people is the only way to grow and experience life. So the answer to the question is - YOU.

Music:

Sade, Anita Baker, Goapele, Jay-Z, Linkin Park, Maroon 5, Van Hunt, Rez, Amerie, Faith Evans, John Mayer, The Roots, SWV, Bon Jovi, Matchbox 20, Ashanti, Pac

Movies:

Forrest Gump, The Color Purple, Dogdeball, Scarface, Primal Fear.

Television:

MTV's Real World. Girlfriends. VH1Soul.

Books:

Davinci Code. Freakenomics. Black Dahlia. Deception Point.

Heroes:

My family and friends (Special shout out to NL, AJ, DC, LD).

My Blog

This one is for the crew...

It doesn't even make sense how dope my friends are. We are real, honest, crazy and fun. We know how to make lemon out of lemonade and sunshine on a rainy day. Anywho - I don't have too much to say - c...
Posted by LadyA on Sun, 12 Aug 2007 10:39:00 PST

Ink

For me it's so emotionally therapeutic to bleed my thoughts through the ink pen. I've had a journal since 4th grade...it keeps me sane! Even looking at my personal blog (not on myspace) from 3 years a...
Posted by LadyA on Tue, 31 Jul 2007 07:59:00 PST

Throwback Blog1 - 2/1/05

Does the Flash Not Work? I'm driving 35-40 mph on Paces Ferry. There is an old red pick-up car slighty behind me to the right and a boxy blue buick/oldsmobile to my left, parked at the red light appro...
Posted by LadyA on Mon, 30 Jul 2007 09:09:00 PST

The connection between love and the senses:

Your lover kisses you and you feel a tremor in the back in your knees. The synapsis' fire, sending orders to move your legs...move your arms. They're the one for you. They're the person of your drea...
Posted by LadyA on Sun, 29 Jul 2007 10:12:00 PST

Big things popping, little things stopping.

 I told y'all that 2007 is the year of the Upgrade. In May, as a part of personal spring cleaning, I considered what current situations in my life aren't optimizing my happiness. Also, looking fo...
Posted by LadyA on Fri, 29 Jun 2007 12:00:00 PST

Love...isn't it ironic, don't you think?

One of my "pasts" tuned me into Tupac's Unconditional Love song. I took that song to heart and vowed to extend it to my futures. I'm definitely not perfect, and have been in a handful of right and wro...
Posted by LadyA on Wed, 30 May 2007 04:55:00 PST

Why March is my favorite month Part II

I'm standing around enjoying the final four festivities at Centiniel Olympic park. People watching, got a birthday shout out on the radio, was around great girlfriends. I'm waiting for Mr. Right to ar...
Posted by LadyA on Sun, 01 Apr 2007 01:44:00 PST

Why March is my favorite month

So today I had the day off from work. Decided to treat myself to a smoothie at Arden Garden. I'm standing looking non-chalant and I turn around and in walks the wonderful Mayor Shirley Franklin. I'm c...
Posted by LadyA on Fri, 02 Mar 2007 01:52:00 PST

Okay - on Sadaam

Reading up, I realized, that his sentence is something I cannot stand for. Call me sick in that I do support capital punishment, but I don't support death by hanging. Can't they try lethal injection, ...
Posted by LadyA on Tue, 07 Nov 2006 07:29:00 PST

Full Circle Moment...Shared

I finally got a sense of closure on a rather insecure time in life. There was definitely a point in my life when I was not confident. I've been able to glance at those that loved me and more important...
Posted by LadyA on Tue, 07 Nov 2006 07:24:00 PST