I took this self evaluation and found it to be quite interesting and close to the truth. It's not based on my birthday or anything like that just my personality. Check it out....
The Core Motivation that drives me through life is "Intimacy". It is important to note that this does not mean sexual intimacy. I need connection - the sharing of rich, deep emotions that bind people together. I often sacrifice a great deal of time, effort, and/or personal convenience to develop and maintain meaningful relationships throughout your life.
I seek opportunities to genuinely connect with others, and need to be understood and appreciated, especially by my partner. Everything I do has to be quality-based, or I won't do it at all. I am incredibly loyal to friends, employers, employees, and above all to your significant other. Whatever or whomever I commit to is your sole (and soul) focus. I love to serve and will give freely of myself in order to nurture the lives of others.
I have distinct preferences and can be very controlling, although I may not acknowledge (or even realize) the fact at times. My code of ethics is remarkably strong and I expect others (not only my partner and those closest to me, but everyone) to live honest, committed lives as well. I enjoy sharing meaningful moments in conversation with your partner as well as remembering special life events (e.g. birthdays and anniversaries).
People like to feel important, especially to their significant other, and I have the natural ability to make that happen. I tend to be very selfless, and my first thought is always "how will this affect my partner?" I would be willing to sacrifice going out with friends or engaging in an activity that I enjoy on my own to do something less exciting with my significant other - not that they would necessarily ask me to - but just knowing I would is a great feeling.
When planning something such as an anniversary dinner or a birthday party, I don't like to go through the same old routine that everyone else does. I have a flair for the creative and I seem to have a sense of how to create an ambiance by adding special touches that I know will be perfect for the occasion. For example, I might have personalized gifts or I might recreate something meaningful that happened previously in our relationship. I make ordinary things extra special, which is very endearing.
OK... time for the negative..
I hold high standards for myself and tend to have unrealistic expectations of myself, my partner, and how things "should be," so when things go wrong, I turn to others, such as your partner, as the source for my unhappiness. I might say to him, "if only you were more attentive / caring / interested / loving (you name it), this wouldn't have happened." This is obviously not a great way to maintain somebody's affection.
My Needs~
I'm driven by Intimacy, I seek deep, personal connections with your partner. That doesn't just mean that I want to understand everything about them. I wouldn't feel that our relationship was complete unless he understood me completely as well. I need to have for a partner who can move beyond superficial conversation and is willing to understand every bit about what makes me me.
I love to give openly and always go the extra mile to please my partner. All I desire in return is that he appreciate the effort that I make to do what I do. I will be happiest in finding someone who is comfortable and open in expressing that appreciation and who doesn't take my 110% effort for granted.
I like stability and security in my relationships and in life in general. I want a partner who communicates in word and deed that he is committed to me so that I always feel on stable ground in the relationship. I also want someone who will establish a solid (and safe) lifestyle with me and not force me to take high stakes risks, although, I would be open-minded in this area, because some risks will really do wonders to enhance the quality of my life.
Turn-ons~
1. Being sincere and genuine
2. Appreciating and understanding them
3. Being thoughtful
4. Expressing interest in personal details
5. Behaving appropriately and being well mannered
6. Being flirtatious
7. Offering praise and adoration
Turn-offs~
1. Being non-committal
2. Becoming emotionally unavailable or dismissive
3. Demanding spontaneity
4. Promoting too much change
5. Abandoning me / Being disloyal
6. Being cruel or insensitive
7. Being unforgiving
8. Ignoring them
9. Embarrassing them in front of others
10. Being slow and indecisiveThis is hard core honesty. The good and the bad... Tell me what you think.
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Elijah's Poems2 little hands – that will never grip2 little legs that no longer kickA delicate face that will never cryAnd tiny hands that can’t wave goodbye2 precious feet that will never walkSoft, brown lips that will never talkBut a beautiful soul that has gone up aboveAnd left me with feelings and memories of loveBorn - 3/2/2008 ~~~~~~~~~ Sunset - 3/2/2008I want to write you this letter, and I will leave it with you when I say goodbye.I don’t understand why you had to go so early, but I know that is was for the best. You mean so much to me and always will. When my water broke I knew it wasn't good. The doctors said that you were fighting but that as soon as you were born you would leave us. As informed as I was I still prayed for the impossible. I held your breathless body in my arms and layed you besides me. I can remember how perfect and tiny you looked. I can remember the sweet smell of your infant body.You know, I still feel you move inside me, it’s strange because you’ve already gone, but I dread not feeling that anymore. I want you to be acknowledged by my friends as a permanent part of this family, and I will make sure that happens. I will choose a song that will be your song forever and I will never forget the love that you gave me from within.I have to admit I’m scared to let you go. You are precious and I have few of memories of you. The scan shows you kicking your feet, and I will always have that memory of seeing you alive. I know we’ll meet again and I know that you will forever be in my heart. Your brothers and sister was so excited to see the new baby I'd bring home. It was so hard to tell them that you were gone. They cried and longed for you just as I. I will comfort them as your memories comfort me. I wish you could have been born alive and saved, but that wasn’t meant to be. I will always wonder what you would have looked like growing up but you are an inspiration to me. Although it's hard I trust God knows best. I told everyone we were suppose to get a baby but we got an angel instead.I love you Elijah with all my heart!!!Love Mommy
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s account is set up to reach the broken hearted, back sliders, troubled, and those who have not yet turned their life over to God! I just want to spread the good news and draw lost souls to God. I hope you find this page to be a blessing to you and that it aids in helping you change or enhance your life and walk with the only true living God - Jesus!
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This is a poem that I came across while reading Sista4Christ~A Prov 31 Woman â€
blog....I decided to post it because it encouraged me & reminded me that it's ok to be single & wait on the one that the Lord has for you.Single and Saved - Author UnknownWhat makes you think that just because I am
An attractive woman of godly intelligence
That I'm incomplete without a mate?
Who told you that
Without a man
Something's missing
From my life?
And if so,
What would that be?LOVE?
I love myself
And more importantly
I love the Lord
He told me that when I delight in Him,
He will give me the desires of my heartSECURITY?
I have everything I need according to His riches in glory.INTIMACY?
Now, how's a man going to get to know me
When he doesn't even know who he is in the Lord?
See, my Father told me I'm above a ruby's worth
And a gem does not seek...
It is soughtI'm single and that's all right with me...See, it's not that I oppose relationships
It's that I detest co-dependency
As a woman
I know it is not my role
To chase after any manEsther 2:14 reads
That I am to wait on my king and
When he's delighted in me
He will call me by my name.My Lord does not intend for me to be needy or desperate.I am to be Cherished, Relished, Valued, and Honored,
It's not my job to convince him
Or Convict him of that,
My mate will already know it
And consistently show it
And he will stay on his knees daily
Not just to adore me
But to praise the Lord for
The virtuous woman he has foundSo, when you see me by myself
I'm not alone...
I know what I have coming to me
I'm single and saved,
And right now that's all I need to be..
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