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Darcie

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About Me


My husband and I have been TTC a baby since 1994. We have suffered 5 early miscarriages and 2 ectopics. I am the problem with blocked tubes which was diagnosed about 2002 after several infertility treatments that ultimately lead to the 2 ectopics and the diagnosis of tubal disease and the only way we can have children to do IVF.
We are currently doing IVF. First cycle was June of 08, but we were canceled for poor response. Second cycle in September, canceled for poor response again, but changed meds and ended up with 9 follicles, just not all mature. So we are now waiting for October to try again. It's been a very very long road to having children, I am hoping this will be the end. :) I have confidence in my Drs and we are doing everything to maximize the chances.
Waiting for AF and October to begin TTC again.
TTC #1 since 1994 (naturally)
1997 got serious and saw a Dr.
1998 started charting BBTs
10/99 m/c
1/00 Clomid m/c
2/00 m/c
3/00 Clomid m/c
2/01 m/c
4/01 injectable stims IUI #1 at UNC 6 weeks - ectopic
12/01 Clomid IUI #2 at Ft Benning, GA
3/02 ectopic
dx'd SIN 4/02
Went to Walter Reed in DC. Did all the testing, paid the money to do IVF but never got into a cycle.
Scott deployed to the war.
TTC on hold.
7/07 heard about IVF at Ft Bragg
8/07 diagnostic lap - uterus OK, tubes blocked
12/07 hysterscopy - OK
All labs - OK
TTC #1 with IVF/ICSI
4/14 saline sono - OK
IVF/ICSI #1 June 08
5/12 Last BCP
5/14 baseline u/s and blood work
5/15 Start Lupron
5/16 Start Gonal-f and Repronex
5/19 u/s & blood work 2 follies
5/21 u/s & blood work 4 follies
5/22 Repeat SA
5/25 u/s & blood work 4 follies
5/25 CANCELED
IVF/ICSI #2 Sept 08
AF is here. CD#1 6/16/08
Start BCPs 7-13-08
IVF class Aug 20th.
8/25 Baseline U/S
9/6 Last day BCPs
9/9 Start Lupron
9/10 Start Brevelle and Menopur
9/12 Follie check- 4 on the left, 3 on the right,E2 8,, upped meds
9/15 Follie check 3 on the left, E2 48, changed meds, started Follistim
9/18 Follie check, 3 on left, E2 277
9/19 Follie check 3 on left, 3 on right, E2 428
9/22 Follie check 3 on left, 3 on right, E2 1176
9/23 Follie check 3 on left, 6 on right
9/23 CANCELED
All my meds this cycle
Waiting for AF
AF is here 10-2-08
IVF/ICSI #3 October 08
Start meds on CD3 after baseline u/s. 2 Follistim, 2 Menopur.
G7P0 5 m/cs 2 ectopics.
“When you save a person’s life, they call you a hero.”
“When you combine science with caring, they call you an expert.”
“When you share your compassion, they call you a friend.”
“And when you do all three, they call you a nurse.”



I'm a registered nurse and I work at the local hospital. I'm a very laid back type of person, I don't get all worked up over the small stuff. I kinda live my life for the other person. I try to do my best to make others feel special. I'm not talking about the nursing, I'm talking about telling people how wonderful they are everyday, cuz you never know when you might lose them.
Married for 16 years to my husband who is active duty army. Been through several moves and deployments and still going strong as ever.
Anyway enough of the deep stuff. I love to play with my dogs. Dogs love you no matter what, I can sit in my pajamas all day and they don't care one bit. All my pets have webpages on Dogster. Pathetic, I know, lol.
I also love to travel. We have been to Germany, France, Austria and Ireland, Jamaica, Mexico and the Bahamas. Not sure where the next trip will take us, maybe New Zealand. Would love to have a RV and travel the USA with Scott and the dogs.
I run, kick box and have taken up learning how to rock climb. I love the outdoors and can sit for hours doing nothing. I'm not an over exciting person, but I do try to live life to the fullest I can and if that means taking risks, I will. I am afraid of nothing.
Life is too short to be angry all the time or take offense at what other people are doing. I learned a long time ago, that you have no control over the other person and, for me at least, its best just to do what I want/need/think is best and move on. I'll do my best to make you happy, but if I can't, oh well. And if you don't like me, it's your loss, lol.
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Darcie
Birthday: July 1
Birthplace: Maine
Current Location: North Carolina
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Brown
Height: 5 feet
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right
Your Heritage: White
The Shoes You Wore Today: None
Your Weakness: Sushi
Your Fears: Sudden death
Your Perfect Pizza: Stuffed Crush Veggie
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Get Pregnant with IVF
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: LOL
Thoughts First Waking Up: I got to pee
Your Best Physical Feature: Hmmm
Your Bedtime: When I am tired
Your Most Missed Memory: Being about 10 years old and carefree
Pepsi or Coke: Diet Pepsi Max
MacDonalds or Burger King: Neither
Single or Group Dates: Either
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Diet Lipton
Chocolate or Vanilla: Both
Cappuccino or Coffee: Both
Do you Smoke: Nope
Do you Swear: Yes
Do you Sing: Yes Rockband Whoohoo!
Do you Shower Daily: Yes
Have you Been in Love: Yes
Do you want to go to College: I am in College
Do you want to get Married: I am
Do you belive in yourself: Yes
Do you get Motion Sickness: Nope
Do you think you are Attractive: Sometimes, if I try really hard
Are you a Health Freak: Yes
Do you get along with your Parents: Yes
Do you like Thunderstorms: Nope
Do you play an Instrument: Nope
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Yes
In the past month have you Smoked: Nope
In the past month have you been on Drugs: Prescription only
In the past month have you gone on a Date: Yes
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: I cant remember
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: Nope, but I had oreo cake
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Yes yes yes
In the past month have you been on Stage: Nope
In the past month have you been Dumped: Nope
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Nope
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: Nope
Ever been Drunk: Yes, lol
Ever been called a Tease: Not that I know of
Ever been Beaten up: Yes
Ever Shoplifted: Yes
How do you want to Die: In my sleep
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Do I have to grow up?
What country would you most like to Visit: New Zealand
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Blue
Favourite Hair Color: Brown
Short or Long Hair: Short
Height: over 5'11
Weight: over 180
Best Clothing Style: Casual
Number of Drugs I have taken: None illegal
Number of CDs I own: Too many to count
Number of Piercings: 7
Number of Tattoos: 5 but I want one more
Number of things in my Past I Regret: Many
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My Interests

This is me in the wind tunnel for the first time. This was so much fun. Not at all what I expected, easier and hard then it looks.



These are pictures from our trip to Ireland in June 2007. It was an anniversary present to each of us. It was the most fun and exciting trip I have been on. Ireland is breath taking, beautiful and the people there are awesome. I can't wait to go back some day.




Reading, playing video games. I absolutely love my car. I am a fanatic about my Mustang GT. Drinking Jager and Red Bull. Exercise, hiking, rock climbing. ..

For My dogs. Samantha who we lost in April 2007. She was 13 years old. Cody my old lady who is 14 years old now. Tucker who is my rescue is 8. Reilly and Sampson the puppies, lol.

I'd like to meet:

Cesar Milan the Dog whisperer. I would love for him to come to my house and tell me how dysfunctional my BMD is, lol.

HowManyOfMe.com

There is
1
person with my name
in the U.S.A.
How many have your name?

Music:

Me and one of my best friends playing Rockband. Yes I am the one singing and looking like a complete dork, but hey isn't what playing games is all about, lol.

I listen to just about anything. Don't care much for Rap, but there are some songs I'll listen to. I have old Jazz to heavy metal on iTunes. I am a child of the 80's so Def Leppard is one of my favorites and you just can't beat the Safety Dance, lol. I have 4 iPods if that says anything about how much I like music. I'd rather have headphones on then to watch TV. But I love listening to anything loud, fast and fun while driving my car. Just to name a few... Nickelback, Superchick, 3 Doors Down, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, Sum 41, Staind, Hoobastank, Skillet, Seether, Yellowcard. .. Currently I am into soundtracks and quieter music, my ears are getting old and I can't tolerate the headbanger stuff anymore, (unless I'm in my car, lol)

Movies:

Really liked Iron Man, Bucket List, the 3 Pirate movies, Harry Potter series, (can't wait for the next one), Looking forward to seeing Marley and Me. Nothing sappy or sad. I don't like to cry at movies. Horror only if its believable, is it ever believable? ..

Television:

NASCAR!!

Star-gate SG1. Star-gate Atlantis, Discovery channel, Mythbusters, Ghost Hunters, SCI FI channel, all nature shows, medical or history shows.

Books:

I love to read. Currently reading The Darkest Evening of the Year by Dean Koontz. But mystery, true crime and horror are my favorite. I read a lot of Patricia Cornwell and Janet Evanovich, but any book is fair game. On my night stand right now... T is for Trespass, Book of the Dead...the new Odd Thomas book, Harry Potter.

Heroes:

My mother. My husband.

My Blog

still waiting

Well, we are still waiting for my cycle to start. I am not sure we will make it this month. We may end up waiting for January. Not sure it matters really, Originally we had planned to wait that long a...
Posted by Darcie on Tue, 21 Oct 2008 06:13:00 PST

still waiting

Well, we are still waiting for my cycle to start. I am not sure we will make it this month. We may end up waiting for January. Not sure it matters really, Originally we had planned to wait that long a...
Posted by Darcie on Tue, 21 Oct 2008 06:14:00 PST

no more surgery

Scott is back from the Drs. He does not  need the surgery that was scheduled for Monday the 20th. In fact Dr Dahners was so impressed with the way he knee has healed he doesn't have to go back fo...
Posted by Darcie on Tue, 21 Oct 2008 06:10:00 PST

been a few days, thought I’d update.

Still waiting.I talked to Dorie again and I picked up my meds yesterday from Womack. I had 3 bags of it. I'll take a picture of all the crap I have to inject myself with in a day or 2 when I get the t...
Posted by Darcie on Fri, 10 Oct 2008 02:37:00 PST

still waiting

Well, I thought I would be doing ultrasounds and shots today but nope, my body is not cooperating. I just got off the phone with Dorie and she thinks I am just coming down off the hormones. I guess it...
Posted by Darcie on Mon, 06 Oct 2008 05:29:00 PST

AAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!

Holy Crap!Ok, my period has started, or is about to start. So I call Dorie, my IVF nurse and she talks to Dr Parker and they want me to start meds on CD3. Umm what happened to end of October?So, on fu...
Posted by Darcie on Thu, 02 Oct 2008 01:12:00 PST

bitching to bitch

Ok, no one likes to work.I mean we do it for the money and maybe, just maybe every once in a great while there is some satisfaction in it.Now take my job. I am a nurse.  I love nursing, I really ...
Posted by Darcie on Sun, 28 Sep 2008 12:42:00 PST

Misunderstood?

Its not really that people are second guessing me, its more that they want me to do this and cant understand the difference between 3 follies and 7. IVF is complicated and people, while they are inter...
Posted by Darcie on Sat, 27 Sep 2008 07:49:00 PST

trying to explain

trying to explain why we decided to cancel this cycle after I stimmed so well is hard. People cant understand that 7 thousand dollars is a lot to risk on 3 or 4 follicles. They only hear that I had 9 ...
Posted by Darcie on Fri, 26 Sep 2008 01:38:00 PST

Talked to Dr Parker,

and we decided to cancel the cycle.It's ok with me and he suggested we do it mainly because I am stimming so well, that he wants to wait for the best possible chance to get as many eggs as we can, and...
Posted by Darcie on Tue, 23 Sep 2008 01:15:00 PST