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Cyn

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

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What can I say about me that can truly let you see me as I am? First, I was born on Labor Day here in the US (for which my mother likes to tease me about) and spent the first ten years of my life in Chicago, Illinois. I learned to read and write early in life, before going to school, because my parents would cheat by flipping more pages each time to hurry up reading the stories.At 10, my family moved to NC, where I spent 8 years learning to love the South. Okay,the no snow played a role, but there's something almost indescribable about the South--their passion, their love of family, their laid-back, competent manner that is very compelling. But after I graduated high school and had my daughter--I moved to New England. While there, I managed to get married, have two sons, lose my dreams and part of myself.Then a vacation to Florida changed everything. The vacation led to moving, then moving led to my divorcing the man I married. Trust me when I say it was better for us both to not be with each other. During my first two years in Florida, I faced who I had become and didn't like it. I missed the girl who wasn't afraid of taking risks, who didn't let her dreams fade away, but learned to do other things to make the time for the dreams later. So, at the end of 2000, I decided that I would reach out for one of my ultimate dreams--becoming an author.In 2003, I sold my first book to an epublisher. Since then, I've had five books released with another two on the way. Plus, ae I've learned more about my craft, I've caught the attention of NY publishers as well. One day, I hope I can happily announce that I've sold to NY. It's one dream I know will come true as long as I persevere and not let the fear of success cripple me. If you've wondered about reaching for your dreams, then take my advice--try for it. Though you might not accomplish it the first time or the second, if you continue, you will eventually succeed. IIf you want to see my current list of releases, you can check out my website Essence of Cyn or my epublisher's site, Loose Id .
Occasionally, I go looking for characters-- including myself

I was playing and found me-- sorta. LOL

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

People. Real people who want to be friends, lovers, and perhaps more. I'd like to meet people who are open, curious, and willing to explore all facets of life and what it means to have a relationship. Open in beliefs, desires, and willing to be honest is truly important to me as I'm one who questions many things and searches for answers everywhere.Often times I've found men to be hesitant in approaching because of what I write--erotic women's fiction with romantic elements. Specifically, my erotic romances are for hetero,homo couples and polyamorous people. Why do men shy away from a woman who enjoys sex in various forms? I don't know, but I wish someone would step forward and be willing to see beyond the author title to the woman beneath. Yes, I'm erotic in nature, I won't lie about that--so if you're not into experimenting, you might want to keep walking. But once you look past the writer and see me, Cyn, you'll see a woman who doesn't base a person's experience against a book. I learn something from everyone I've been around, and with the right person--who knows what fantastic things can be shared?

Spell of the Day by Llewellyn
http://www.llewellyn.com/free/spell.php

Spell a Day-- for those pagans who like a bit of help on what is good on what day.

My Blog

Sex Ed with Mistress Cynnara- BDSM 101- The Dominant

Lets hear it for the Dom/me!!Lets introduce the Dominant first. The stereotype is either a leather catsuit-clad woman in five inch heeled boots with whip in hand, or the male in leather pants, no sh...
Posted by on Thu, 04 Dec 2008 15:42:00 GMT

Psychology- Residual Feelings

Recently, one of my dear friends emailed me about something that's been bothering him. Now, you have to understand, he's a fellow writer and ofttimes we use our emotional responses to certain things ...
Posted by on Mon, 01 Dec 2008 14:58:00 GMT

Pagan- Why the Ritual in Magick?

I know I spoke a bit on this topic, but today, I want to delve a bit more into detail on the hows, whys and explain why there are some cliches that are found within the pagan community which will alw...
Posted by on Sun, 30 Nov 2008 09:41:00 GMT

Pagan: Why Im considered an Eclectic Pagan

The past few days, I've been thinking on the non-fiction book dealing with paganism I've been wanting to write. How my beliefs and my growing knowledge has led me to honouring not just part of my ethn...
Posted by on Tue, 25 Nov 2008 09:05:00 GMT

Match Game- Ghost Style

A while back, I had a story in the Spirited anthology entitled Match Game, Ghost Style. Well, Loose Id, in its wonderfulness, decided to make it a classic, releasing it into it's own book with a ...
Posted by on Mon, 24 Nov 2008 16:10:00 GMT

Flash Fiction- Guess what Fairytale?

Ann Vremont posted links to a beautiful fairytale scene she created. Then she challenged people on the Changeling Press Yahoo group to come up with a flash fiction. So...I came up with one. Gods only ...
Posted by on Sun, 23 Nov 2008 10:55:00 GMT

Personal- Holiday Traditions

Fellow romance author, Raine Delight has a blog topic dealing with holiday traditions. It got me thinking on some of the holiday traditions of my family that I've kept and the ones I've created for my...
Posted by on Sun, 23 Nov 2008 10:24:00 GMT

Flash Fiction-

Sometimes, I have no idea on what to write for Flash Fiction day. Today is one of those days. Why? Because I got out of working today and I came home bored. I want to read books and do NOTHING. LMAO B...
Posted by on Fri, 21 Nov 2008 18:32:00 GMT

Pagan: Element- Spirit

Many people who believe in the four main elements of the Middle Ages- air, earth, water, fire, do not count spirit among them. For them, Spirit comes from man or a higher power, not part of the eleme...
Posted by on Thu, 20 Nov 2008 07:21:00 GMT

Rant: Same Sex Marriage

Can anyone recite the Preamble to the US Constitution? "We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the commo...
Posted by on Sun, 16 Nov 2008 12:13:00 GMT