I love to have fun, listen to music, party, go to the club, kick at house parties, hang out wit tha homies and tha fam, socialize and spend time wit my boy, make and spend a lotta paper, and be a 10. On the softer side however I love to cook, draw, write songs, dance, shop, travel and debate. I drink, smoke a few things and do X rated things from time to time! Im doin my own thing as far as my career path, and myself. I'm in a relationship now, but I haven't mellowed out so please believe I'm doin everything i want, u only live once ya know! Breakin it down Im 3 boys in one: church boy, country boy and party boy!
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I'd like to meet:
I like to meet cool people like me that are down to earth and enjoy living life. Im not perfect or flashy, mostly plain, and I love all and am mostly known for my heart. I strive to break racial, ethnic and social boundaries cuz the world needs more common differences. Im gay and Im very aware that some do not accept it, and thats fine. If you have an issue thats on you, I am not here to cater to anyones insecurities or judgments, either pass me up or holla at somebody who cares... or both. Im str8 up country, but educated, so dont be suprised at my accent and how proper i may speak cuz thats just me! Also, it would be the greatest honor to meet the leaders, actors, actresses, and entertainers of the black community that paved the way for the new generation of blacks so that we were seen, heard and known at times when black people were not valued in society. Although I know I probably won't ever meet them, and some are deceased, the love is still here and I celebrate the life I'm able to live because of their courage and strength.
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TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: E.L. ~ Lavish
Birthday: July 17th, 1982 (Cancer!)
Birthplace: Wichita, KS (tha dub-K)
Current Location: Capitol Hill, Denver, Denver County, CO, USA
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Dark Brown (no I dain't dye it, it's just not black)
Height: 5'10"
Right Handed or Left Handed: Lefty baby!!
Your Heritage: African American/Black - although I'm a mix of black, indian (cherokee and seminole tribes I'm sure of), and white/irish
The Shoes You Wore Today: Black Dress shoes
Your Weakness: Candy, Cute Boys, Challenges, Parties, Shoes
Your Fears: Spiders, heights, big bodies of water (LoL)
Your Perfect Pizza: Thin crust or deep dish with red onions, black olives, roasted tomatoes, red/green peppers, spinach, portibello mushrooms and red sauce with cracked black pepper!!! No meat needed
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Well this year's almost up... '07 I wanna travel more, change jobs possibly and start on my next degree
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: OMG or hoe my gawd
Thoughts First Waking Up: Leave me the F alone, don't even look at me!!!
Your Best Physical Feature: I have several, but to be G-rated... my eyes
Your Bedtime: Whenever
Your Most Missed Memory: Kickin it in the dub-K wit family and friends, partyin for days wit the homies in Denver
Pepsi or Coke: Pepsi baby
MacDonalds or Burger King: McDonalds for their double cheeseburger
Single or Group Dates: Single, but group dates are ALWAYS fun
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Lipton Peach or Green Tea
Chocolate or Vanilla: White chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee: Cappuccino from Starbucks, coffee from home
Do you Smoke: Newports everyday, and several other things sometimes!
Do you Swear: Hold the F up B, askin me shit like that!! MF do you swear??
Do you Sing: Everyday! I miss singin in the choir
Do you Shower Daily: Yup! Refreshing
Have you Been in Love: Yup!
Do you want to go to College: Already did, but there's always room for more degrees
Do you want to get Married: In the future
Do you belive in yourself: Always
Do you get Motion Sickness: It's happened before
Do you think you are Attractive: Of course man!
Are you a Health Freak: Naw, I drink and smoke, but I walk 2 miles a day... does that count?
Do you get along with your Parents: I barely talk to them but me and the siblings are workin on them
Do you like Thunderstorms: Hell yea, I'm from Kansas.
Do you play an Instrument: Viola, Piano and organ a lil bit
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Sure have!
In the past month have you Smoked: Yup
In the past month have you been on Drugs: I plead the 5th!!!
In the past month have you gone on a Date: Yup
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Naw, savin for my vacation
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: No, but downed a bag of chewy chips a'hoy tho
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Yup but not from an upscale place like usual
In the past month have you been on Stage: No but feel like I'm on one at work sometimes when it be people all over
In the past month have you been Dumped: Naw
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Naw I don't do water
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: Naw
Ever been Drunk: Man...I've been past drunk
Ever been called a Tease: All the time
Ever been Beaten up: Naw
Ever Shoplifted: Yup in my teen years, was pure fun!
How do you want to Die: Peacefully around my loved ones
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: I'm grown but I wanna be an Urban and Regional Planner, I'll take the congestion outta the freeways!
What country would you most like to Visit: Either Brazil or New Zealand
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Dark or light brown
Favourite Hair Color: Black or dark brown
Short or Long Hair: Doesn't matter
Height: Like em around my height
Weight: Height/Weight proportionate
Best Clothing Style: Clean, skater, earthy, hip hop
Number of Drugs I have taken: 8, and still got more to try!
Number of CDs I own: Wow, I can't count them
Number of Piercings: None, don't want any
Number of Tattoos: None, don't want any
Number of things in my Past I Regret: A lot but oh well!!!
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You Communicate Like a Man
When you communicate, you like to get to the point.
You're not afraid to say what's on your mind - and leave it at that.
Talking about your emotions drains you. You rather keep them to yourself.
You prefer solving problems to wallowing in your sorrows.
Do You Communicate Like a Man or a Woman?
Music:
I usually like all music but my favorites are are neo-soul, hip hop, old skool, rap, r&b, trip hop, house, punk, and disco. I also like 90's, 80's and the 60's too. My favorite artists are Janet, Frankie B and Maze, R Kelly, Diana Ross, DeBarge, Erykah Badu, Chic, Missy, Yung Joc, Jill Scott, Ready for the World, Aaliyah, JayZ, Ciara, Bobby Brown, TI, Faith, Whitney, The Isley Brothers, MJB, Musiq, SWV, Snoop Dogg, Zapp and Roger, Keyshia Cole, Outkast, Rufus and Chaka Khan, Roberta Flack, Michael Jackson, No Limit Soldiers, The Jacksons, Keith Sweat, LL, J.Lo, Lil John, John Legend, Trina, Beyonce, A Tribe Called Quest, Anita Baker, Justin Timberlake, Lil Scrappy, Pharrell, Joe, Billie Holiday, Three 6 Mafia, and Tamia.
Movies:
Set it Off, Lady Sings the Blues, The Count of Monte Cristo, Boy's Don't Cry, The Wiz, The Last Dragon, Blade (all 3), Juwanna Mann, LOTR (all 3), Poetic Justice, Friday (all 3), Jungle Fever, K.I.D.S., To Kill A Mockingbird, Amadeus, Halloween, and The Color Purple. I like drama, biographies, horror, vampires, werewolves, dragons, serial killers, 80's teen and adventure movies.
Television:
Desperate Housewives, Grey's Anatomy, Tyra, Oprah, Brothers & Sisters, Ugly Betty, Americas Next Top Model, Criminal Minds, Meerkat Manor, American Idol, Cold Case Files, American Justice, The Most Extreme, I Love New York,The Flavor of Love, Intervention, Thats So Raven, CSI: Miami, The Simple Life, Medium, Super Nanny, Nip/Tuck, The First 48, and all the shows primetime Monday on CW2. TV is a trap, but even worse when I can watch it on my cell too LOL! I also watch the news 3 times a day Good Morning America, World News Tonight, Jimmy Kimmel Live and Dateline. I like info shows, wildlife, drama, crime, comedy, mystery, reality, and saturday morning kids tv when Im in recovery from partyin!
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Heroes:
My siblings are my heroes, they support me and show me love, I wouldnt have made it through a lot of hard times in my life without them. I can talk to them about anything, we ride or die for each other. We all grown up now and live in 4 different states, but I love them hoes! We representin across the whole nation! WHUT! My nephews are my inspiration in so many ways, I didnt want kids before but when they were born I knew I wanted my own tribe LOL I love yall!
