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Trevor

The highest and most beautiful things in life are not to be heard about, nor read about, nor seen bu

About Me


To each of you, I hope you know that the most important thing to me, is What I say, not How I say it. If inadvertently the What is overshadowed by the How, I am sorry that the strength of the How has been so distracting. At this moment in my life, it is not important for me to pay attention to the How. I will again, arrive at that point, at that balance, the balance between the What and the How. For now, I must, must pay attention to the What. Before, I gave all of myself to the How, I gave all of myself to others for the sake of others. I never knew What I was saying because it was more important that those I said it to, How I said it, was agreeable to them, put me in a favorable light, gave to them. But that, that How, to me, is a house of cards that, without the foundation of the What, without the foundations of Truth, Honesty and Integrity, will come tumbling down around your head. And it did. So, now, the What is my focus. And I hope that someday, if in someway What I have said has brought something negative, hurtful or difficult bear on you, you understand it was never personal, it was never malicious, that it was because I was not focusing on How I said it, I was focusing on What I said. And nothing more. Thank you for understanding.Lyrics:
You know it ain't easy
For these thoughts here to leave me
There's no words to describe it
In French or in English
Well, diamonds they fade
And flowers they bloom
And I'm telling you
These feelings won't go away
They've been knockin' me sideways
They've been knockin' me out lately
Whenever you come around me
These feelings won't go away
They've been knockin' me sideways
I keep thinking in a moment that
Time will take them away
But these feelings won't go away
I will carry you through the hurricane waters
And I'll remember you in the blue skies
I will carry you through the hurricane waters
And I'll remember you in the blue skies
Something happens when
You're caught searching for an answer
When you're stuck in the middle
Of a place that you don't belong
When you start to lose sight of what's right and wrong
When we started it was innocent
'Cause when we started it was innocent
I will carry you through the hurricane waters
And I'll remember you in the blue skies
I will carry you through the hurricane waters
And I'll remember you in the blue skies
Until we meet again
Until it's like it was
Until then
Until the answers start raining down
Until the skies open up until the trumpet starts
Until then
Until the city and the county ain't divided
Until then
Until the spirit and the mind ain't fighting
Until the scenes of tomarrow and today finally play
I will carry you through the hurricane waters
And I'll remember you in the blue skies
I will carry you through the hurricane waters
And I'll remember you in the blue skies
Help, I have done it again
I have been here many times before
Hurt myself again today
And, the worst part is there's no-one else to blame
Be my friend
Hold me, wrap me up
Unfold me
I am small
I'm needy
Warm me up
And breathe me
Ouch I have lost myself again
Lost myself and I am nowhere to be found,
Yeah I think that I might break
I've lost myself again and I feel unsafe
Be my friend
Hold me, wrap me up
Unfold me
I am small
I'm needy
Warm me up
And breathe me
Be my friend
Hold me, wrap me up
Unfold me
I am small
I'm needy
Warm me up
And breathe me

My Interests

Living. Learning. Loving.

I'd like to meet:

"She did not sleep in the hours that were still left to her. She sat on the floor of her room, her face pressed to the bed, feeling nothing but the sense of his presence beyond the wall. At times, she felt as if he were before her, as if she were sitting at his feet. She spent her last night with him in this manner."

"You've never suffered, the eyes were saying with self rightous scorn -- while he remembered the sensation of proud chastity with which he had fought through those moments, refusing to surrender to pain, a sensation made of his love, of his loyalty of his knowledge that joy is the goal of existence, and joy is not to be stumbled upon, but to be achieved, and the act of treason is to let its vision drown in the swamp of the moment's torture. You've never suffered, the dead stare of the eyes was saying, you've never felt anything, because only to suffer is to feel -- there's no such thing as joy, there's only pain and the absence of pain; only pain and the zero, when one feels nothing -- I suffer, I'm twisted by suffering, I'm made of undiluted suffering, that's my purity, that's my virtue -- and yours, you the untwisted one, you the uncomplaining, yours is to relieve me of my pain -- cut your unsuffering body to patch up mine, cut your unfeeling soul to stop mine from feeling -- and we'll achieve the ultimate ideal, the triumph over life, the zero!"

"She's a writer. The kind of writer that would'nt be published outside. She believes that when one deals with words, one deals with the mind."

"Mine," he said. "Have you let them beat you into forgetting what that word means, what it feels like? You should give yourself a chance to relearn it"

"How coud we be capable of forgetting the old myths that stand at the threshold of all mankind, myths of dragons transforming themselves at the last moment into princesses? Perhaps all dragons in our lives are really princesses just waiting to see us just once being beautiful and courageous. Perhaps everything fearful is basically helpessness that seeks our help."

Music:

Deftones (they who are the rhythm and the flow that has followed and guided my path, helped in sorrow and breathed for me when I could not. "walk into this world with your head up high"). Sigur Ros (Love). HWM ("lead your heart and never follow". Robert Shaw (the only reason I would ever believe in God). Mew (because they make even nightmares beautiful). Sia (to help you understand its okay to be human). Radiohead (Because they don't care. And never will). Citizen Cope (for helping me understand more, everyday, my ruin). Guns N' Roses (like the first time you ever get drunk and throw up with friends). Chambao (the flow of life). Ojos de Brujo (Barcelona - smell, street, life, movement, soul -- personified. The Editors (Fathomless). Tool (um....yeah...). Tiesto. Black Keys (thanks Jeff). Rage. Cope. Beck. Pearl Jam (for those times when you need to turn to someone but find yourself alone)

Movies:

"I can see now, I never really commited to Laura. I always had one foot out the door. And that prevented me from doing a lot of things, like thinking about my future and...I guess it made more sense to commit to nothing....keep my options open....and that's suicide...by tiny, tiny increments."

Television:

Kill it.

Books:

Rand. Hoeg. Auster. Hemingway. Rice. Rawling. Thompson.

Heroes:

R.