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PAtRCik

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About Me

i’m just your average joe. i have my good moments and not-so-good ones pretty much like everyone else. i’ve gone through tough times and i’m glad to say that experience has been a great teacher to me. knowing that i’m a work in progress is both comforting and scary at the same time. that must be why as i’ve become older i’ve become less hasty in my decisions. i now understand that my actions affect the goals i set for myself. surprising isn’t it, my transformation from that devil-may-care guy to someone more subdued? sometimes i wish to be that same guy and sometimes i don’t. i think there comes a time when a man has to ask himself whether he wants a life of happiness or a life of meaning. two different paths because to be truly happy, you must live absolutely in the present, with no thoughts of what is over and done. but to live a life of meaning, you are doomed to wallow in the past and obsess about the future. i’m striving to find a balance between both.http://thepatboi.blogspot.com/

My Interests

art and indie films. conversations with strangers. the beach. road trips. the cool breeze of 4 am. fashion. people and languages. porn. sarcasm. dry wit. documentaries. intelligent and nonsensical conversations. psychoanalytical bullshit. bookshops. art galleries. karaoke. dancing under the influence. happy endings. travel books. nigella lawson on the food network. laughing out loud. spontaneity. dorking out. anything avant garde. infomercials. my nicotine & alcohol fix.

I'd like to meet:

i'm in love with the idea of falling in love again. i'm interested in meeting people and see what and where it leads to. lol. seriously, i'd like to meet someone funny who can crack me up. someone who can put up with my dorkiness. someone who is not high maintenance and doesn't complain about everything. someone who can find pleasure in the simple things. i don't care about looks too much. attraction goes a long way though so that's a must. unfortunately, i don't make the best first impressions. lol. so bear with me. if you're interested, message me. better yet come up to me and say hi. i don't bite.. unless you want me to. ahaha!View All Friends | View Blog | Add Comment

Music:

the classics. a bit of acid jazz and world beat. bossa nova.

Movies:

my best friend's wedding. almost famous. the love letter. bridget jones's diary. american beauty. center stage. the yarn princess. empire records. before sunset. under the tuscan sun. a very long engagement. crash. rules of attraction.

Television:

will and grace. anything on the food network. mad tv. snl. the news. queer as folk.

Books:

nightswimmer. i read anything i can get my hands on as long as it's interesting enough.

Heroes:

my parents.

My Blog

faithless

i have lost faith. there i said it. shouldn't those be the magic words to lift off this heavy feeling hanging on me. frankly, i was expecting it to but i just feel- empty. how anti climactic. how sad....
Posted by PAtRCik on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

gay couples should never be allowed to marry. rubbish.

1. Homosexuality is not natural, much like eyeglasses, polyester, and birth control.2. Heterosexual marriages are valid because they produce children. Infertile couples and old people can't legally ge...
Posted by PAtRCik on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

why i have come to love cebu

these are the reasons why i have come to love cebu: 1. brahma kumaris. this is a yoga center i get to pass by everyday because it's near my boarding house. my previous one actually. what i like abo...
Posted by PAtRCik on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

delirious

with closed eyes, i am awake and dreaming. the humdrum of my muted wailings pulsate through me. thump. thump. thump. i am so far gone i couldn't feel the pain. i hurt so much it's like they're all the...
Posted by PAtRCik on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

selling the drama

selling the drama was never my kind of thing but here i am doing just that. drinking my night away. smoking like there's no tomorrow. hating you. hating myself. i get so confused i don't know...
Posted by PAtRCik on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

moment of weakness

how stupid of me to think i was the one who made your heart beat faster. forgive me for thinking such daydreams. it's crazy, i know. call it desperation. call it temporary insanity. call ...
Posted by PAtRCik on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

a slice of my cebu life

here i go again... spending a lot of time looking for another apartment... can i help it if i don't like the one i'm in now? all i'm asking for is to have water in time for my morning showwer... is th...
Posted by PAtRCik on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

so this is goodbye

Hey. You know who you are. I just want to say, if ever you're reading this, know that I'm getting over you. It may hurt seeing you and never be with you but acceptance is the key to my survival. I wil...
Posted by PAtRCik on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

thoughts on a very boring sunday night

it's my fourth day here in cebu and it can get lonely at times. real work starts tomorrow so i'm pretty excited about that but all that studying can become too much. there's only so much information i...
Posted by PAtRCik on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

love or something like it

No matter how far I run or how fast, itll still be Saturday. Whatever things I do to keep myself busy, it doesnt seem enough for me to forget. I try, really I do, but I cant. There are always more ...
Posted by PAtRCik on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST