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Realistic_romantic

Perceptions rn't always reality--Ego lets ur mouth run when u just can't handle being truthful--FINA

About Me

I am an independent, easy going person who is on the go... with work, school (almost done--YEAH), visiting friends in Albuquerque, and keeping up with my kiddos, I don't have lots of free time. SO when I get some I don't have time to waste on possessive men who want more than I can give as well as whiny, insecure men who DON'T LISTEN or are like a hole in a bucket...ya got to know ur BOUNDARIES...not like on a map--but how to RESPECT someone else's limits...common sense...ENOUGH ON THAT!!! I love to cuddle and just simply be touched/caressed (which was reborn in me-thanks u know who u r:)) when in the right company....as well as I like the simple things. I don't need extravagant gifts--just the little things that count the most...just call me because you miss me or text my phone--write me a poem, give or send me a card, sing to me :) listen to my body and heart because they will tell you what I need (plus I will-I don't expect folks to read minds). My word and promises are iron clad and are not broken—Honor and respect are the basis to that but it doesn't mean that if I promised u something and u act like a fool--Im not going to put myself in a bad spot so... I REALLY enjoy being sung too. I am not looking for a perfect man—I except faults as I too have them. I am looking for the man that puts me first in a relationship and I will do the same in return—this way we both get our needs met and there isn’t lack of concern/respect/commitment/giving.
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My Interests

Salsa and meringue dancing... Any dancing... Working out... Spending time with family and friends... Flirting....but nothing too crazy unless the situation calls for it. :)

I'd like to meet:

A REAL Christian man--someone with that is old fashion in their values as far as how to treat a woman...a man that holds honor near and dear to them as well as respect for a woman with two little ones and what all that entails...(If ya want to come to my house--think again--I don't allow folks there--if ya know where I live and have been fortunate to be allowed there--DON't JUST SHOW UP!!! Its not ur house--U have to be INVITED back--its called STALKING otehrwise...OK--more of what I am looking for)...ROMANTIC with the little things and likes to laugh, have fun. Wants to do things for their woman VS being fake about it...I will appreciate it--and tell ya--but when you want a CONSTANT pat on the back--then you're doin it for the wrong reasons. Since I've gotten older, I like to take care of myself (mani's, pedi's, waxing, my hair)...i don't mind getting dirty and don't cry if I break a nail but...If that's too high maintenance for you then...MOVE ON!! I don't wish to keep tabs on someone b/c if ya don't want to come home then pack ur crap and leave, if I have to track u down--i have now given you more power over my life and I have wasted WAYYY too much energy that I can focus somewhere else. I want a man that has his act together and looking to better himself (I'm not about changing you but if ya don't like what ur doing or become... advance yourself). Please have an idea of what you want to do in life and have some plan to it (investments, goals, schooling...SOMETHING). I have worked hard for what I have and am trying to NOT be one of those folks at retirement who is not financialy secure so I don't want someone who is going to depleat what I have and doesn't know how to handle his own. NO STALKERS!!! YA got to love kids and respect an old-fashion dad. If ya meet him-be prepared to give him tobacco (yes he is Native American) to talk to him...I'll clue ya in more if that is about to happen. Looking for a MAN that can just simply touch my hand or shoulder and send chills thru my body. Oh yeah!!! and I love to be song too:) {thanks S.H.}

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Music:

I like all types...From Hip Hop, Latin Music, to R& B, Jazz, Kareoke to Native American flute music to heavy metal...if I can dance to it...I'll listen to it...I like the relaxing type too..

Movies:

Kid movie: Shrek, High School Musical, Brother Bear... Adult: Two Moon Junction or Wild Orchid Tamer: The Last of the Mohicans (even though the translation was off), PowWow Highway, Mystic Warrior

Television:

Who's got time for that..Soprano's, but I would say Home Makeovers (sorry I like the look of the homes), Full Houe (yes I know they are reruns) and who's line is it...

Books:

I love poetry-Angelou is my favorite----but if I had to pick books I would say Wounded Knee and Of Mice and Men. I want to read the Divinci Code-Can I borrow it??

Heroes:

The Men and Women that are in the Armed Forces and of course...my mom and dad. Mom I don't know how you did it but I'm learning from you--so yeah-I listened :) Dad-you taught me a lot of what I should do with myself--your were hard but I feel it helped mold me to what I am. I love you both. Can't wait to come home and see you all.

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