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Hope

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About Me

Born and raised in Providence/Cranston RI, now living in Virginia Beach, VA for the last 26 years, less 3 spent away in Findlay OH and East Meadow NY. Currently divorced since December, 1999 after 16 years of marriage/14 together, with 2 adult daughters. They are my greatest joy and in general, my greatest accomplishment.(See my Becca-she's .becka.- below and Kara!)As I was growing up, I never had a clue what direction I wanted my life to take, always changing my mind. Sorry, I haven't changed any! Originally decided on a career in Chemistry. Loved the subject, but not a good choice for a female in 1980. Dropped it to safely conceive and then raise my daughters. One of the best decisions in my life, hands down. Don't know if they would agree or not, but hope they would. For all of you who knew me 'back when', you'll probably be surprised to learn that I converted to Christianity in 1993. If choosing my kids over work was decision 1B, that was decision 1A. So now I am a practicing Catholic. Has brought me more peace and contentment than I could ever have imagined possible. Thanks Paul, thanks Peggy, thanks and blessings to all of you who prayed for me to see the Light! Thanks too, to all the special people who've contributed to making the journey better for me. Hopefully I contribute to making it better for you, too.
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TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Hope
Birthday: September 25th
Birthplace: Providence, Rhode Island
Current Location: Virginia Beach, Virginia
Eye Color: brown
Hair Color: brown
Height: 5'4"
Right Handed or Left Handed: right
The Shoes You Wore Today: Birkenstocks, always
Your Weakness: chocolate
Your Perfect Pizza: hawaiian
Your Most Overused Phrase On an IM: oh mi gosh!
Thoughts First Waking Up: love to wake up to KLOVE radio
Your Best Physical Feature: my eyes, but some say my legs
Your Bedtime: usually 9-10 pm
Your Most Missed Memory: my first love
Pepsi or Coke: either, diet and caffeine free, please
Single or Group Dates: single
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Celestial Seasonings and Tazo actually
Chocolate or Vanilla: chocolate, definitely
Cappuccino or Coffee: cappuccino
Do you Smoke: no
Do you Swear: very seldom
Do you Sing: yes, i make a noise, not necessarily joyful!
Do you Shower Daily: I generally prefer a nice bath instead
Have you Been in Love: yes
Do you want to go to College: not until I retire
Do you want to get Married: I'm open to the possibility but not the probability
Do you believe in yourself: sometimes
Do you get Motion Sickness: yes, seasick only
Do you think you are Attractive: prettier on the inside than the outside
Are you a Health Freak: nah
Do you get along with your Parents: miss my Dad, relationship with mom has improved.
Do you like Thunderstorms: as long as I feel safe
Do you play an Instrument: not since middle school
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: no
In the past month have you Smoked: no
In the past month have you been on Drugs: prescription only
In the past month have you gone on a Date: yes!
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: yes
Have you ever eaten a box of Oreos: yes...
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: no
In the past month have you been on Stage: no, I don't count the church altar as a stage
In the past month have you been Dumped: no, but there has been a repeated clarification of a significant relationship.
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: no
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: no
Ever been Drunk: no
Ever been called a Tease: yes
Ever been Beaten up: depends on your interpretation
Ever Shoplifted: no
How do you want to Die: without pain, peacefully, quickly
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: not important
Favourite Hair Color: not important
Short or Long Hair: not important
Height: I judge my friends only by the stature of their character!
Weight: not important
Best Clothing Style: have to admit, I love to see a man in a suit!
Number of CDs I own: under 20 for myself
Number of Piercings: my 2 ears each have one hole, prefer him to have none
Number of Tattoos: none, for either of us
Number of things in my Past I Regret: 2
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My Interests

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Trying to reconnect with old childhood friends and acquaintances, and possibly make some new ones.

My Blog

Accepting ourselves

I was quite aghast a few months ago when I found out our church was going to start using the Gallup organization to survey our parishioners. Besides the cost factor in these economic times, I deal wit...
Posted by on Fri, 03 Jul 2009 03:37:00 GMT

job offer on the table

Ah, the joy of having a new job offer on the table!  After the MBS buyout, we were all concerned about how long the "Chesapeake office" would remain in existence. Our fears were increased when th...
Posted by on Fri, 27 Jul 2007 02:54:00 GMT

Excitement from multiple directions

Wow! It has been a week! Annulment comes through, kidney stone is gone (first day in 6weeks I can honestly say I feel well) amd now 30th high school reunion scheduled weekend before my birthday!!!&nbs...
Posted by on Thu, 12 Apr 2007 18:49:00 GMT

Annulment news updated

Well friends, it is primarily over. Got a letter yesterday from the Tribunal, dated April 5th. The invalidity has been proven. Now it just needs to be reviewed in Baltimore before going into effect. I...
Posted by on Sun, 08 Apr 2007 02:50:00 GMT

I have another favorite song!

Friends...  If you want to hear a FANTASTIC piece of music, try "Kneeling" by Ceili Rain! It may not be your style melodically, but the lyrics brought tears to my eyes the first time I heard it, ...
Posted by on Fri, 13 Oct 2006 03:06:00 GMT

Annulment news...

Well...  I finally heard from the Richmond Tribunal...  The annulment request was received on September 18, has been assigned to R Francis Muench as judge and John H Thomas as defender of t...
Posted by on Sun, 24 Sep 2006 11:16:00 GMT

just to say thank you....

Well, thanks to Becca, I have the site up and running a little prettier than it was, she also snapped the quick pic....  muchas gracias, merci beaucoup, sorry do not know it in Russian, German, I...
Posted by on Wed, 20 Sep 2006 16:47:00 GMT