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Miss Lunarkitty

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About Me

After a hiatus while my mouseygeeky alter-ego finished up grad school, I'm back, and finally and setting up this long-overdue profile. I'm in the process of migrating 5 years of advice into the blog. It's a little bit messy. Apparently back-dating posts to 2003 is not an option.

Disclaimer: Take my advice at your own risk. I'm not a licensed therapist, nor a psychic, nor do I have any credentials to give anyone any kind of legal or health advice. I just like to tell people how to run their lives.

Somehow or another I became the official Freezepop advice columnist. I think more bands could use an advice columnist, don't you?

After several years of reading problems sent to me, I have come up with a few rules to live by:

1. Asking doesn't guarantee that you'll get what you want, but you certainly won't get it if you don't ask. This applies to all areas of life. This is especially for all of you (and there are A LOT of you out there) who are in love with your best friend.

2. Honesty is almost always the best answer. If the truth is going to really hurt someone, it doesn't mean you should withhold it, but maybe you should find a way to state it that might lessen the blow.

3. There is no excuse for bad behavior. Period.

4. Are you sure that the cute chick on the other end of the chat is who she says? Really?

5. This is not a dress rehearsal. You get one chance, so make the most of it. Be who you are, and be the best at it. And be good to others while you're at it.

If these don't address your question, please drop me a line. I will be using my blog to address quesitons or problems sent to me. If you would prefer not to have a question posted, that is fine, just include that in the message. I like to keep these confidential, so please do not use real names, including yours. For the same reason, please don't post questions to the comments section; instead send a real message.

I do read everything, but sometimes it takes me a while to answer, so have patience.

My Blog

Great, another love problem, eh?...

Greetings and salutations, Miss Lunar Kitty, There has been something that has been bothering me for a while now. I'm 16 years old, and have a wonderful boyfriend. Great, another love problem, eh? For...
Posted by on Tue, 28 Nov 2006 22:20:00 GMT

The thing is that I'm feeling a bit like Charlie Brown...

I'm a middle school student who needs advice. The thing is that I'm feeling a bit like Charlie Brown. Charlie Brown likes this red-haired girl at his school but has never asked her out. I have the sam...
Posted by on Tue, 28 Nov 2006 21:25:00 GMT

...he threatens to lick people...

Hello, Ms. Lunarkitty!Get ready, here comes another teen crush story.Okay, I am 13 years old and for some obscene reason my brain has decided, without my permission, to have a crush on a guy that I kn...
Posted by on Mon, 23 Oct 2006 21:20:00 GMT

A Matter of Etiquette

This post is in response to observations made tonight at the Pet Shop Boys concert here in Austin.It was a fabulous show, and I was fortunate enough to be right up front, nothing between me and the st...
Posted by on Sat, 21 Oct 2006 21:49:00 GMT

How can I convince my mom to let me go to homecoming?...

Dear Miss Lunarkitty,I really want to go to my school's homecoming dance but my mom wan't let me because she says that she doesn't want me go by myself, I told her that I wasn't going to be the only o...
Posted by on Tue, 26 Sep 2006 15:01:00 GMT

...i was trying to void my mind from what was our "relationship"...

okay okay so my ex-gf says shes sorry for what she has done. waaaay in the past. up too this point i was trying to void my mind from what was our "relationship" she cheated on me and we'll leave it at...
Posted by on Sat, 23 Sep 2006 08:38:00 GMT

I used Myspace to make a girlfriend...

Hi, Miss Lunar KittyI think I did a bad thing. My Ex-gf Kri wanted me back but I broke up with her (because she was obsessed with accidentally getting herself pregnant on purpose) and then got other g...
Posted by on Fri, 15 Sep 2006 07:48:00 GMT

...its just like nobody even knows that I exist...

dear Miss Lunarkitty,hi my name is andie and I am 14 yrs.old. im in 9th grade and all I can think about is being popular. im not a nerd or anything. I don't know any body who hates me. its just like n...
Posted by on Tue, 12 Sep 2006 09:09:00 GMT

... she's proud of my dorkiness...

Dear Miss Lunarkitty,I'm 20 years old, and I'm swimming in girl trouble. A while ago I had a girlfriend and then we broke up. It wasn't a bad break up or anything like that. It just happened because I...
Posted by on Mon, 11 Sep 2006 10:11:00 GMT

...and I am hated by alot of kids at my school...

What can I do to get a girlfriend? I'm shy around people I don't know, I dye my hair strange and weird colors, and I am hated by alot of kids at my school. What should I do?MattDear Matt,First off, yo...
Posted by on Sun, 10 Sep 2006 07:23:00 GMT