I had originally written this when I was looking for the right woman to share my life with and I have found her! So, this is now a capsule of that wonderful person: I would like to meet a woman who is already happy! I have learned that you cannot make someone else happy as that must come from within that person. If you are not happy without a man, you won't be happy when you have one either. If you are not happy when you don't have much money, you won't be happy when you do. It is that simple. Trust is the essential element in a relationship. If I can't trust you when I am out of town, I don't want you in my life. In the same way, you should be able to go somewhere, too, and not wonder if I am cheating on you. Lovemaking is one of the most beautiful gifts that God has given us and it should be special. It is actually a sacred thing between two people who are truly in love. If you cheat, you have broken the bond of trust between you and the relationship is ruined. You may choose to stay in it, but it will never be the same. Forgiveness is a beautiful thing, too, as all of us say or do things that we regret from time to time. It is best to ask that person what they were thinking or feeling at the time as maybe there is some aspect of their psyche that you were not aware of. If people don't forgive each other, bitterness sets in and that eats away at your heart until a small problem becomes a big one. I like being with a woman who is not afraid to show her affection for me in public and is madly in love with me in private. I have the capacity to love someone completely and without judging their past. I also have great passion for the woman I love and will do just about anything to please her.