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Fuatino Lealao-Ve'e

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About Me

.. My name is Talalelei Fuatino Ualifi Lealao-Ve'e. Yes, after all those long names, my husbands last name is nice and short - Ve'e. I'm the eldest daughter to Ualifi Nu'umau Lealao and Saunoaolegutu Leilua Lealao, both of whom are back with our Heavenly Father. And my stepdad "Papa Lua", Malua Fanene. My dad passed away when I was only 10 years old, in Hawaii. He's buried at the Mormon Temple mortuary in Laie - with the rest of the Lealao family members. One of which I was named after "Talalelei", my grandfathers sister. From the day my dad passed away I had to grow up and help mom. I became not only the older sister but also the pseudo father figure. Losing a parent at such a young age, forces you to grow up very quickly.I officially have 3 brothers and 1 sister. However, I grew up in a very close knit family on my mom's side aka "Savaiians"; where my first cousins were all my brothers and sisters. Total 23 and counting, many in Samoa I haven't yet met. So I'm actually the eldest granddaughter, as well, at least here in the states. Lots of responsibility being the eldest. Guess that's why some of my siblings like to jokingly call me "grandma".I have so many blessings for which I am thankful and humbled by. Our Heavenly Father has mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, however - their loving grace and heritage lives on in each of us. They are now our guardian Angels that help guide us to strive to be better. All the teachings and their accomplishments are a challenge to us, their legacy that we strive to carry on. I truly believe they are with us always, that lil voice in our ears that help keep us on the right path. I'm blessed with a loving & patient husband...we've been through alot; each marriage has its challenges, and yet I wouldn't trade it for the world. He is and will always be my True Love - Benjamin Samuelu Ve'e aka "Sambo". Some in my family think he's a saint to still be married to me..(yeah, those that say that, I think they may be adopted.) My other BIGGEST blessing is my Sweetheart - My love, My angel, My son - Ioramo Lexington Ve'e aka "Lamo" aka "Lambo" aka "Lex" - My lil miracle. Other than my lil sweetheart....my brother Steve & Ualifi's kids are also my kiddies – Arra, Nate, Monster, Sesa, & Pudge. Not to mention all my nieces & nephews; that we continue to add to each year. We're going to need to rent a hall just for the holiday get together's. Between all of them, family functions, and church; I have a very busy, blessed, & fulfilling life. As much as I miss my mom each day - I know I have my family. My family is my life, my blessing, and for that I will always be grateful.

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I'd like to meet:

....once last time, "I'd Like to Meet" and talk to my mom...not in my dreams but in person, to give her one more hug and kiss....and tell her over & over, "thank you & I love you", "thank you & I love you"..."thank you & I love you.."Thank you - for loving us and raising us to be as strong and loving as youThank you - for forcing us to be selfless with what we have and who we areThank you - for ALWAYS encouraging us to be better and reach for the stars, don't settleThank you - for teaching us that nothing in life comes easy, you have to work for what is worth having and what you wantMOM...she was an amazing lady!! For those that don't know her, you missed out. She was one of a kind. Loud and "tell it like it is", straight forward person, with the heart of gold. And she was "loud" in her opinions, whether peeps asked her for it or not. She offered it willingly. For those that didn't know her well...they sometimes mistook her loudness for being mean and unkind - but she wasn't. She didn't want to talk behind your back, so she came straight to you and let you have it. After, she'll be the first one to offer her last dollar or last bit of food to you. Thats how she was - "with an open hand" that's how freely she gave. She became the matriach after grandma passed on to Heaven. Mom stepped in and became the rock & glue that held us all together. She became father/mother figure, counselor to everyone - not just to us; her kids, but more to her sisters and their husbands, and other church members.Mom worked for years in the hotel industry and she had great stories about the ladies she had to train. At the start of each story, I almost always said "mom, you're so mean" cause she would scold these ladies, alot of times ladies that were older than her. But at the end of the story, you saw a glimpse of the kind of heart she had. For any new trainee, she ended up helping them by doing their work and telling them to take a break. She was the kind of person that helped those that weren't as strong. Hard working, god fearing, dedicated church deacon - LOVING, LOVING, LOVING. My hubbie thinks she spoiled me, even after I got married. But I never saw it that way - I just saw that as mom wasn't afraid to show us how much she loved us. Mom was always about her family - god & family first. Mom passed on to Heaven in 2004, so it's only been 3 years. They say time heals all wounds - I don't quite agree with that. I miss her dearly with all my heart! That will never go away, no matter how much time passes. What time does give you is it allows you to let go of the anger towards god for taking mom and filling the void with the great memories of her. I am thankful that my mom became my best friend and we did so much together. That - those memories and allowing yourself to embrace them - that will help....a little.

Music:

Samoan, Reggae, Old School, "Babyface", "Maxi Priest", "Angie Stone", "No Doubt", "Dixie Chicks", "Grease 1 Soundtrack", "ABBA", "Cyndi Lauper", some stuff by "Madonna", "Outkast", Some Hip-Hop, "Lenny Kravitz"....

Movies:

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Television:

HBO Series (totally obssessed) - "Sex & the City", "Six Feet Under", "Sopranos"... "CSI" (the original series only), "Friends", "Will & Grace", "ER", "The 70's Show", "Bernie Mac"... MTV Series (yes, i admit - i'm guilty of tuning in to these....) "Real World", "Road Rules Challenge", "The Osbournes", "Punkd"... "Gilmore Girls" (love the dialogue), "One Tree Hill" (love the teen angst, okay, can we say 90210 for today?)....

Books:

Books by the following Authors - Jane Austen, Danielle Steele, Amanda Quick, Nora Roberts

Heroes:

*~!~* My mother! Saunoaolegutu Leilua Lealao Fanene *~!~*