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Hey there, Well its been a long time since I’ve updated this. A lot has happened. David and I are still “Happily” Married….lol. No, but really , we have the real thing, not just the comfortable lovely dovey stuff, but the Passionate,,, Heaven and Hell stuff too. But I tell you what, I wouldn’t have it any other way, he is original,,, and never, ever, ever boring….lol. We had our One year anniversary May 20th, 2007. He took me to the Old Spaghetti Factory and to the Boat House in Forest Park to go Paddle boating. It was so romantic. I just finished my Associates Degree in the Liberal Arts at SWIC in 2007,,, God, it took long enough,,, but that’s what happens when you work full-time and take 2-3 classes a semester. I was originally going to transfer that Degree to SIUE to pursue Conference Planning but changed my mind about three quarters though. I figured I would finish what I started and at least it will be in my background. I won’t start Massage Therapy school until David’s done with his Bachelor’s degree as SIUE. Now that I have all this free time I can go running , hanging with my friends, and start up my Scrap booking again. I have to hand it to my friends and family. I know I’m no walk in the park sometimes and yet they still love me….that’s good stuff. I try to make it down to see my Mom and little brother Johnathon who live in Missouri.My mom is very Spiritual person and I admire the mission work and volunteer work that she does for her church and her communtity. My brother is hilarious and can always make me laugh, he's really smart too. I miss them alot and I get really emotional everytime I leave them after visits.I love my parents. While Wednesday are girl’s night,,, I always make time for my Dad, He is an incredible man whom I prefer to hang with on Saturday than anyone else. We usually kick back a few beers and watch some Boxing, maybe even watch a little Led Zepplin or AC DC live in concert. I am such a Daddy’s Girl and darn proud of it. I’m no competitive person, but no one can shake a stick at finding a dad as cool as mine. I feel as though I’ve changed so much,,, yet I can’t tell if anyone’s noticed (at least nobody has mentioned it). I see things differently . I’m a hell of a lot more confident and assertive. It sounds so cliché’ but I’m understanding myself better and coming into my own. I’m sick of labels, picking sides, and arguments about stupid shit. I always go back to how my father explains life and I’d definitely have to go with him on this one>>>>“don’t sweat the small shit”. I still consider myself moderate right but I’m so sick of politics at this point. I’m still the sweet girl some knew a few years back but something’s changed. Sometimes I wonder if its for the bad or good. Other times, I really just don’t give a crap what anyone thinks anymore. Maybe it’s because I’m older now,, maybe being married,,,(god, knows it takes a strong women to tackle David….lol), or maybe It’s being a Bank Teller and having to put up with all the Bill Customer’s Shit All day, everyday. Don’t get me wrong I will still bend my self backwards to help someone, (even if I don’t know them.) But once I see you aren’t helping yourself,,, I have no pity. I Definitely don’t see my self as Naive but I don’t think I’m fully matured either. Anyone that thinks I’m shallow, dim , or ditzy can suck it…. Because you obviously don’t know me,, and if you’re judging me that fast then I don’t need you as a friend anyway. I love to laugh and I don’t care how it looks to people. It helps with stress and is the best thing next to Sex. One thing I can’t stand is snobby or stuck up people,,,, I just WON”T tolerate it. If I don’t talk to you as much anymore that is probably the reason,,,,, or it could be because I had been so busy with school the past couple month’s ..lol. Snobby people make others feel like shit about themselves and should be ashamed… I don’t care if that was how you were raised, GROW UP and start treating people like equals. In any case, I believe everyone can change for the better and It takes a lot for me to completely give up on someone. I only hope that others can have the kind of friends I have, the kind that don’t judge, tolerate your crap, love and respect you and above all take the time out when you need them the most.
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