I'd like to meet:
Soulmate Vs PlaymateIn our quest for happiness, we must be sure that we dont settle for a playmate when god has a soulmate waiting for us, sometimes a hard distinction to make. Playmates are tricky. They are so much fun to be with that even the smartest of us will be fooled into thinking this is our soulmate. Worse yet to many of us attempt to make a soulmate out of a playmate.The danger of this is that later, after years of playing we may meet our soulmate, but it may be too late by then. We may have already made a life mate out of our playmate.
Even created life-long bonds-emotional,children,etc.Or we may have been hurt from playing so hard that we are in no shape to be anybody's anything. How can we distinguish between the two.First, we must be open with ourselves about who we are and what our soul yearns for. Only you and god know what is truly in your heart and mind. Only you know what will make you truly happy and whole.In order to find your soulmate you have to know you, First. You must be willing to listen to that inner voice. And is that voice telling you that the nerdy person you enjoying talking to and sharing your thoughts with could be him or her? What about the friend who is always willing to go the extra mile for you when nobody else is willing.Oh no! He's too short or too tall ,too skinny or fat, and on and on? Just too ordinary looking for me! then theirs that girl who makes you feel so special when your around her but she doesn't match that ideal you conjured in your head. She's to tall not slender enough, not attractive enough, and on and on. She just couldn't be for me! So what if he or she doesn't live up to the fantasy you have dreamed up he or she is going to treat you like the jewel you truly are.Not only that, his or her soul and yours will commune in ways you never imagined possible. In order to heed that voice, we have to put on the back burner our own superficial thinking. Could it be that your inner disire is a truly genuine person with a good heart.If you enjoy playing stay on the playground. Their are plenty of playmates to occupy your time. But dont spend too much time playing are you will eventually play your life away. Eventually the playing loses its appeal and your soul begins to crave a deeper, more meaningful connection. Your soul begins to crave your soulmate.
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Its Jay if you know me well if not then no need to know
Birthday: November 3 1984
Birthplace: St.louis Missouri
Current Location: Jefferson City Missouri
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Black
Height: 5''11
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right
Your Heritage: Black
The Shoes You Wore Today: Black Forces
Your Weakness: Relationships and Trusting people
Your Fears: God
Your Perfect Pizza: Meatlovers
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: New Apartment
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: Lol
Thoughts First Waking Up: What time is it
Your Best Physical Feature: Not sure you tell me
Your Bedtime: Whenever i can busy all the time
Your Most Missed Memory:
Pepsi or Coke: Coke
MacDonalds or Burger King: Macdonalds
Single or Group Dates: Single if its first date im shy
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Lipton
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee: Coffee i work nights
Do you Smoke: Weed Sometimes
Do you Swear: All the time at work
Do you Sing: Sometimes
Do you Shower Daily: Of course
Have you Been in Love: Yep once
Do you want to go to College: Already in
Do you want to get Married: One day
Do you belive in yourself: In certain situations
Do you get Motion Sickness: Nope
Do you think you are Attractive: Of course
Are you a Health Freak: Sadly i am
Do you get along with your Parents: Dad yes Mom a little
Do you like Thunderstorms: Next to someone special
Do you play an Instrument: Piano
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Yes
In the past month have you Smoked:
In the past month have you been on Drugs: Weeds not a drug
In the past month have you gone on a Date: No i wouldnt call it that
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Yes
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: No
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: No
In the past month have you been on Stage: No
In the past month have you been Dumped: No
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: No
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: No
Ever been Drunk: Yes not recently though im doing good
Ever been called a Tease: Yes guys cant be teases can we
Ever been Beaten up: Nope
Ever Shoplifted: When i was younger
How do you want to Die: Unexpectedly
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Original
What country would you most like to Visit: Africa the good part
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Doesn't matter
Favourite Hair Color: Normal
Short or Long Hair: Long
Height: Not taller than me
Weight: Not fat
Best Clothing Style: Cute without being to dressy
Number of Drugs I have taken: None
Number of CDs I own: Too Many
Number of Piercings: None
Number of Tattoos: None yet coming soon
Number of things in my Past I Regret: No regrets mistakes make you who you are
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