Well, the perfect woman isn't out there...Trust me, I've tried...Most of the time, it's either beauty and a coconut or brainiac and a pumpkin...However, there are three deciding factors in my book First off, anyone with a great, optimistic, and fun personality can melt the most frigid of hearts... Also, compassion...Yeah, she's got to be compassionate or else we won't get along...I like being nice and I like being around nice people... Lastly, a brain...No, not necessarily MENSA material, but someone I can at least talk to about anything under the sun...