a man....not a boy hahahaha i want him to like the outdoors, not serious all the time,someone who will bring a smile to my face and keep me guessing. i do not want the jealous type,control freak,or a man that has alot of baggage and issues that r depressing,i don't want to fix his life i just want good ole fun,laughter and old fashion romance. a good listener as well as talker.thats all i can think of at this point, i like a man that is fit and trim also.thats important