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Rebecca Rae

Quit the games. Just be yourself.

About Me


~ ".People Don't Change ...
They Merely Continue To Reveal Themselves." ~
~ .Ben Harper.
~ AND SO IT GOES ~ ...
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~ HELLO ~ ...
♥ My name is Rebecca. I grew up in National City, CA until my marriage to Art in 1982. While our 3 children were growing up we lived in: East San Diego, North Park, University Heights, and National City. Moved to Laguna Niguel (OC), CA in 2000 and to Goodyear, AZ in 2002. We left CA due to Art's employer. I miss San Diego, miss my friends and family even more. I go there every chance I get ~ makes my heart happy!
♥ My children are grown: Aaron 26, Matthew 24, and Briana 20. Intelligent, beautiful, and most of all good people, they're the loves and lights of my life ~ my inspiration. I'm very proud of them.
♥ My goal is to eventually be in a position where I can directly help children and families. Upon retirement my desire is to travel, good health and God willing.
♥ A wish: Here's to striving toward peace, love, devotion, wisdom, honesty, integrity, and loyalty to what's positive and righteous. No one is perfect and like many others I've got work to do. So let's help one another and get to it. Not "later-later" but "right-now right-now." Salud!
~ ^i^ DEDICATIONS ^i^ ~
♥ For my brother-in-law Danny, my uncle David, my other mom Barbara, my friend Tracy, my friend Becky, my cousin and friend Vonnie, all who've lived with cancer, and those who love them ...

My Interests



♥ Family, friends, music, learning, teaching, community, get-togethers, festivals, vacations, celebrations, nature's beauty...

I'd like to meet:



♥ When the time is right ~ My Heavenly Creator, Jesus Christ, and my Guardian Angels. I have a lot of questions, apologies, and thank-you's. Also my paternal and maternal ancestors.
♥ I enjoy meeting good-hearted 'everyday people' and I appreciate a sarcastic sense of humor, though it should be backed with a loving heart.
♥ If you're selfish, mean-spirited, or lack compassion and a desire for harmony - I don't want to know you. And if I find you to be a liar, a fake, a phony - you're out of my life. I'm picky about who I let in and who stays.
♥ So Be Warned: I'm nice, but I'll eventually tell it like it is, in my own way. I stand up for myself and others ~ speak my mind and my heart ~ all said with good intentions.

~ BE GOOD ~

~ ALWAYS ~

~ IN ALL WAYS ~
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Music:

♥ I enjoy many styles. A few are: Soul, Funk, Oldies, Motown, Jazz, Blues, Classic Rock, New Wave, Punk, Classical, Gospel, Folk, World Beat, Roots, Reggae, Ska, Latin, and more. Love concerts and music shows ~ especially outdoor community festivals filled with good music, good people, good food, and good times...

Movies:

♥ Too many to list by name, but some of my fave genres are: independent, foreign, documentary, noir, mystery, suspense, adventure, romance, and comedy...

Television:

♥ 30 Rock, Scrubs, The Office, My Names is Earl, Ugly Betty, LOST, Medium, Cold Case, Law&Order: SVU, Monk, George Lopez, Bernie Mac, Everybody Hates Chris, Everybody Loves Raymond, Conan O'Brien & his house band "The Max Weinberg 7" (best late night talk show band!), The Daily Show w/Jon Stewart, Bill Mahr, SNL, PBS, Animal Planet, National Geographic, Learning Ch, History Ch, Discovery Ch, and Travel Ch...

Books:



Heroes:

♥ Heavenly Creator and Jesus Christ for creating and sustaining life and giving unconditional love; my husband for being my rock and loving me through it all; my children for teaching me to be a good mother, inspiring me to be a better person, cheering me on, living with my faults, and for loving me no matter what; my Nana ~ 12/25/19 to 11/10/97 ~ RIP, I love her deeply ~ she was and still is my tower of strength ~ she endured so much in her life; my brother for being an example of courage under harsh circumstances; my mother for trying her best despite her problems; and my brother-in-law Danny ~ 4/19/60 to 5/4/05 ~ he was so brave ~ may he rest in peace. ♥

My Blog

Good News

Art and I received a phone call from our very excited and happy daughter yesterday.   Briana interviewed for summer internships with four networks last week.  Univision&n...
Posted by Rebecca Rae on Thu, 10 Apr 2008 03:33:00 PST

’Black Butterfly’ spotlights lives of inner-city teens

I'm very proud to say, my daughter ~ Briana Valdivia ~ played "Raquel"...I was privileged to witness this gift from her.I love You, my Briana Nicole... AlwaysMamaIn honor of you... your love, and you...
Posted by Rebecca Rae on Thu, 27 Dec 2007 03:14:00 PST

My Christmas Message

Dear Familia & Friends ~I just want to express gratitude.  To God above for His love and many blessings, and to you for your love and prayers.  I hope I've been there for you as you have...
Posted by Rebecca Rae on Wed, 26 Dec 2007 03:04:00 PST

Dedicated To The One I Love ~ The Shirelles

Artist: The ShirellesSong: Dedicated To The One I Love While I'm far away from you my baby I know it's hard for you my baby Because it's hard for me my baby And the darkest hour is just before dawn Ea...
Posted by Rebecca Rae on Sat, 10 Nov 2007 11:00:00 PST

~ In Remberance of my Nana ~

My mom's mom was a second mother to me.  She raised me on and off throughout my life when my own mother couldn't.  She raised my brother for most of his life.  She was a strong woman wh...
Posted by Rebecca Rae on Sat, 10 Nov 2007 10:30:00 PST

Another Car Accident! ;*(

Aaron was in a 6 car crash at 8am this morning.  Physically he's okay - abrasions, cuts, scrapes, bruises - of course he's pretty sore.  It was quite a scare for all of us. His Ford Focus i...
Posted by Rebecca Rae on Fri, 26 Oct 2007 05:56:00 PST

Keep Believing In Yourself

Keep Believing In Yourself   There may be days when you get up in the morningand things aren't the wayyou had hoped they would be.That's when you have to tell yourself that things will get better...
Posted by Rebecca Rae on Mon, 09 Jul 2007 04:42:00 PST

Reasons to be happy and feel blessed...

*I deleted people from my friend's list who aren't actually friends of mine, they were more like acquaintances. This works better for me, and I'm sure they barely even noticed.*An issue got resolved a...
Posted by Rebecca Rae on Sat, 16 Jun 2007 08:52:00 PST

To certain people from my past...

If you're reading this, you know who you are... I'm letting go... yet just because I'm letting go does not mean that I've forgotten. What this means is that I've chosen to move on, move forward.....
Posted by Rebecca Rae on Thu, 08 Feb 2007 04:14:00 PST

People Come Into Your Life...

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to m...
Posted by Rebecca Rae on Fri, 11 Aug 2006 09:24:00 PST