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Hello, I'm Brenda, and welcome to my space! I am a little shy at first but I open up quickly to the right people! I am an honest, loving, caring, one man woman with a big heart. I'm pretty laid back. My family is very important to me and I see them whenever I possibly can. By family, I mean not only those by birth, but those by choice, who are sometimes closer than birth family. We get together for holidays, of course, but also for birthdays and sometimes just because. I have one daughter, Tracy, who is now 21. She lives with her dad........................................................I 'm the person who other people run to with their problems....I'm not complaining, it just part of what makes me the person that I am. I'm a very practical person, but I'm also very free thinking and understanding of most things.....................................................I finally like who I am! It took me a while to get here. I'm tired of all the crap that some people bring. I don't have the time or energy for it any more. We all have some baggage, but I think I have learned how to deal with it. I don't like head games and that is something I won't tolerate! I also expect honesty!! I'm so tired of liars! Why can't people just be honest? Don't they realize that they will and DO get tripped up in all the lies??!! Being honest is so much simpler!...................................................I 've been hurt before but who can honestly say they haven't been? We each must learn how to deal with the hurt and pain. It's all a CHOICE isn't it? I choose to try to try to learn from the mistakes, and the hurt they caused, and move on. I think I'm doing pretty good at it, with one exception, but I'm still working on it.........................................................I have been diagnosed with fibromyalgia, spina bifida, tethered cord syndrome, arthritis and scoliosis. It slows me down, but it wont get me down. I'm too full of life for that, and I just don't let it bother me that much! There's just too much living and loving left for me to do! I do need my wheelchair or my scooter when I go out, but I can walk around the house. My illness is just a part of me, it doesn't define me. If you have an OPEN MIND, and it doesn't scare you, then I'd like to hear from you... ....................................................If ya want to know more, just ask me. I'm pretty open minded about most things and will answer most questions........................ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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I'd loved to have met my gramdmother Nora. She died when my dad was only 5 yrs. old. People say I look alot like her, so I would have liked to see that for myself. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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I'd like to meet REAL people. People who try to portray themselves as something or someone they're not just annoy me! I'm so sick of the users and abusers. If you are an opportunist and just want to take advantage of my good nature, turn around and walk your self off my page! NO ONE will ever do that to me again!!!!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Someone who is CAPABLE of seeing me for who I truly am. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~People who are OPEN MINDED about disabilities and realize that the disability does NOT define a person! I am physically chalenged, not dumb! Think you can handle that?? :) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Someone who is honest and trustworthy! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Someone to just hang out with. Maybe go to lunch, a movie, shopping, out for a soda, just sit and talk, etc... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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My Blog

Rules from God for 2009

Rules from God for 2009 1. Wake Up !! Decide to have a good day. "Today is the day the Lord hath made; let us rejoice and be glad in it"Psalms 118:24 2. Dress Up !! The best way to dress up is to put ...
Posted by on Thu, 07 May 2009 14:38:00 GMT

Koala in a tree

 A koala was sitting in a gum tree... Smoking a joint When a little lizard walked past, looked up and said,'Hey Koala! What are you doing?' The koala said, 'Smoking a joint, come up and have some.' So...
Posted by on Wed, 06 May 2009 13:13:00 GMT

Random thoughts on love ee

Just a few thoughts.................................ee  Sometimes the greatest impediment to love isn't hate or even apathy. Sometimes it's indecision.ee Love is a complicated emotion. So, too, are th...
Posted by on Sun, 01 Mar 2009 22:12:00 GMT

I AM Only Me

I am only me, that is all that I can be, No more, no less. Don't second guess. I love, I laugh, I live and cry, I've wished at times, that I could die. Some days I'm funny, others I'm not, sometimes I...
Posted by on Mon, 23 Feb 2009 11:35:00 GMT

She Will Make it Greater

"Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If...
Posted by on Wed, 11 Feb 2009 13:37:00 GMT

When He Disappoints You

I don't know who wrote this but I know it's true......................   when he disappoints you time after time, realize that it's not on accident and that he is okay with doing it to you. you d...
Posted by on Wed, 03 Sep 2008 04:01:00 GMT

Baggage of the Past

"The baggage of the past will pull U down so much you will lose your todays because of it" (Chell White)   This is so true and yet most of us don’t even realize it! We must learn from the p...
Posted by on Sat, 15 Mar 2008 16:03:00 GMT

I Think We Need Fashion Police! LOL!

One thing I have noticed alot, especially while with my daughter on Saturday night, is that there are more than a few girls/women who need to get a clue as to how to dress! If your tits are bigger tha...
Posted by on Mon, 18 Feb 2008 11:49:00 GMT

Bars- Then and Now

Saturday, Feb.16, was my daughter’s 21st birthday! We have had a plan for it for quite a few years. I took her to dinner with a couple of her friends then we hit a bar. I was the DD, so only Spr...
Posted by on Mon, 18 Feb 2008 11:00:00 GMT

Only a Man Would Do This!

A guy who purchased his wife a pocket Taser for their anniversarysubmitted this.Last weekend I saw something at Larry's Pistol & Pawn Shop thatsparked my interest. The occasion was our 15th annive...
Posted by on Sat, 26 Jan 2008 06:39:00 GMT