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Hello, I'm Brenda, and welcome to my space! I am a little shy at first but I open up quickly to the right people! I am an honest, loving, caring, one man woman with a big heart. I'm pretty laid back. My family is very important to me and I see them whenever I possibly can. By family, I mean not only those by birth, but those by choice, who are sometimes closer than birth family. We get together for holidays, of course, but also for birthdays and sometimes just because. I have one daughter, Tracy, who is now 21. She lives with her dad........................................................I 'm the person who other people run to with their problems....I'm not complaining, it just part of what makes me the person that I am. I'm a very practical person, but I'm also very free thinking and understanding of most things.....................................................I finally like who I am! It took me a while to get here. I'm tired of all the crap that some people bring. I don't have the time or energy for it any more. We all have some baggage, but I think I have learned how to deal with it. I don't like head games and that is something I won't tolerate! I also expect honesty!! I'm so tired of liars! Why can't people just be honest? Don't they realize that they will and DO get tripped up in all the lies??!! Being honest is so much simpler!...................................................I 've been hurt before but who can honestly say they haven't been? We each must learn how to deal with the hurt and pain. It's all a CHOICE isn't it? I choose to try to try to learn from the mistakes, and the hurt they caused, and move on. I think I'm doing pretty good at it, with one exception, but I'm still working on it.........................................................I have been diagnosed with fibromyalgia, spina bifida, tethered cord syndrome, arthritis and scoliosis. It slows me down, but it wont get me down. I'm too full of life for that, and I just don't let it bother me that much! There's just too much living and loving left for me to do! I do need my wheelchair or my scooter when I go out, but I can walk around the house. My illness is just a part of me, it doesn't define me. If you have an OPEN MIND, and it doesn't scare you, then I'd like to hear from you... ....................................................If ya want to know more, just ask me. I'm pretty open minded about most things and will answer most questions........................ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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