kyle

I am not much of a talker. I don't easily open up to people. But I'd allow you "to get into the upholstery of my life" if you really are a friend. + Clothes reflect the person. I go for those fairly modern without being "mod" and slightly unusual without being "way-out." + I loathe the "on and off switch." I don't switch about; once I've made up my mind about something, I don't change it. + I believe that the capacity for happiness is inside ourselves - often in a tiny unexplored cocoon. Before you can get anywhere at all you have to find it. Only from that instant are you taking the positive steps that can lead to happiness. Hope of obtaining it in any other way is an illusion. You have to learn to use the capacity to be happy - and to deserve it - before happiness becomes a tangible state. + I make the most of what I have. I enjoy it while it lasts. I am not afraid of change. A life that doesn't alter and expand is not developing naturally. + Life is full of surprises... and surprises can give me some of my happiest moments. + I am patient. I don't rush my fences. It would be perfect if I could make a wonderful place and have everybody loving me in five minutes. This just isn't possible. I have to build gradually. Be patient. Bide my time. Persevere. Be firm, clear and constructive. Then I will find that I can be happy anywhere... at any time. + I can't help feeling disappointed about things at times but I try not to let it get out of control. I have to learn self-discipline. It is the only thing that makes me mistress of a situation, a woman's strongest defense against disappointment. + I am too sensitive. I am too easily hurt, but it doesn't mean that I don't feel sufficiently secure. I try to be careful if I am subject to prickly reactions because if I don't guard against them, people will regard me as a liability and I may miss a lot of fun. + I am very warm and thoughtful as a person. I believe that little things mean a lot. and that is wat i am