..........:A Goal Without a Plan is just a Wish:...........I'm your average "jeans & t-shirt" kind of girl, but Love dressing up and having a good time! I was born & raised on the rainy east side of the Big Island but have been living on Oahu for the last year or so :) I'm a country girl at heart but city girl by nature =) I guess I'm pretty much a hopeless Romantic! Yup, I love to love...what can I say! Some other random things about me... My family and friends are my number 1's... I hold them close 'cause they can never be replaced... and good friends are hard to come by... I don't like drama... I'm the youngest and only girl of three... no I wasn't spoiled! =P ... I hate when people make empty or broken promises... I love the ocean... I love to travel, meet new people and make new friends... I'll try anything at least once... I have the gift of being able to see situations from both sides of the coin... I am BOTH an extrovert and introvert (...yes it's possible!...if you know me you understand what I mean)... I try to make it a point to never say never... I've discovered that people tend to get the wrong idea of me quite often... I believe that it is possible for people to have their differences and still be able to get along (being able to agree to disagree)... I love to sing!... I'm a self admitted mic hog when it comes to karaoke!... I LOVE to dance, dance, dance!!! My JenJen and Nikki D will attest to this any day!... I'm a lifelong friend... I'm sensitive...I'm outgoing...I'm almost intimidatingly honest... I appreciate the truth even though sometimes it hurts... I am somewhat a deep thinker... I know more random facts that I'd like to admit =P ... I am selfless and fearless to a fault... It takes a lot to break me... Nothing can hold me down for long for I am resilient... I love life and all of it's up and downs... I believe everything we go through defines who we become and where we end up in life... Okay...=P Anyhow, there's definitely more to me than what's here, but that's all you get for now =P If you wanna know more just ask! I'm always down for making new friends!
..There's no hurry...I'm in no rush...and I do fine all by myself...still I look forward to the day I become someone's everything once again =)
...Wise Words...
"If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't ever make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more, nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with her, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you. All men are not dogs. You should not be the one doing all the ending. Compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to complete you. A relationship consists of two whole individuals. Look for someone complimentary. Not supplementary. Dating is fun even if he doesn't turn out to be mr. right. Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Share this with other women and men (just so they know). You'll make someone smile, another re-think her choices, and another woman prepare."
~OPRAH WINFREY
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