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You have Arrived at your Destination!

The things I am BEST at now are things that I FAILED at atleast once.

About Me

***THE RULES. BASIC PRINCIPLES***
1. God First
2. Love your mother
3. READ, READ, READ

4. Never tuck in your sweater
5. Shoes: Dress=Kenneth Cole, Gym=Nikey, Chillin=GoodYears!!
6. If she gives you her number, call her once and leave a message. Only ONCE. IF SHE LIKES YOU, SHE'LL RETURN YOUR CALL. IT'S NOT THAT COMPLICATED
7. You miss 100% of the shots you do not take
8. Never invite a woman back to your house on the first date. even if you have the best intentions, it will come across WRONG
9. You dont have to be good looking but you have to be charming
10. There is no delicate way to tell a woman you do not like what she is wearing, SO DON'T
11. TRUST is the best aphrodisiac. A woman that trusts you will do most legal things in bed
12. Get a 401K plan
13. White Socks & Dress Pants: Never, I repeat NEVER
14. More money on your house less money on your car
15. Date Rule: A good plan makes for a perfect evening, no plan makes for a quick goodbye. By the way never go dutch
16. Be FAITHFUL or BE SINGLE, there is no in between
17. There is more to music than HIP HOP
18. The harder you work the luckier you will get
19. Making her wait before you kiss her...
20. How you speak says a lot about you. Be Articulate
21. If you have something to hide, she will find it.
22. Learn how to cook
23. Be flexible, compromise
24. The confident and ambitious man gets the girl
25. Honesty is like good medicine only use as directed
26. Kiss the back of her neck, her lower back, her inner thighs
27. Last minute gift: Tiffany's
28. Your socks should match your pants not your shoes
29. If you listen to a woman she will tell you everything you need to know to make her happy
30. Think then unzip, YES IN THAT ORDER
31. Be single at least once for at least 1 entire year in your life
32. Boxer Briefs: YES
33. You should always pay
34. Whenever you think you have done enough foreplay add 15 minutes
35. Regardless of the situation a gentleman always calls the next day
36. When in doubt dress up not down
37. Magazine Subscriptions: Men's Health & GQ
38.The dumber the man the louder he speaks
39."How are you" is usually the best pick up line
40. Be kind to everyone
41. Refer to your waitress, waiter and customer service person by her name
42. Im WELL not Im GOOD
43. Be Polite to strangers
44. Be loyal to your friends
45. Fighting should be your very last option
46. There is no shame in apologizing
47. Eye contact always
48. Listen more than you talk
49. When she's into you. Everything just flows easily. If you find yourself tryinig too hard something amiss
50. Education is sexy
51. Your steak: MEDIUM WELL.
52. Get a money clip
53. Workout
54. Be proactive
55. Never date a woman who passes through a door and does not hold it for the stranger behind her
56. You probably will never know the number of men she has been with and it's probably better that way
57. Desperation is a turn-off
58. Intelligence minus arrogance will get you very far
59. Buy a massage book
60. She wants you to take charge and have a plan
61. Safe Sex, ALWAYS

My Interests

I am very open-minded and easy to get along with. Most people would definitely consider me a GIVER rather than a TAKER. I like to learn, am not afraid of hard work and believe that it is required to reach most worthwhile goals.

I'd like to meet:

As far as myspace goes I am not on here to meet anyone specific. Its really about networking, keeping up with some old friends and Blog writing/Reading for me. I usually get along well with people who "Think before they speak" So If you can meet that simple requirement then we can be friends! If Not... then I suggest you Not...well I am sure you can fill in the rest..LOL



Learn about me from this survey!!
~Introduction~
Name?: Trevor
Nickname(s)?: T
Birthday?: October 8th
Birthplace?: South America
Hair Color?: Black
Eye Color?: Black
Siblings?: 1 Sister
Shoe Size?: 10.5
Any Tattoos?: No
Piercings?: No
~This or That~
Night Owl or Early Bird?: Night Owl
True Love or a Pile of Money?: True Love
Hot Dog or Hamburger?: Hamburger
Boxers or Briefs?: Boxer Briefs
Blue or Green?: Blue
Vanilla or Chocolate?: Vanilla
Coffee or Tea?: Tea
Purple or Pink?: Pink
Winter or Summer?: Summer
Sun or Moon?: Umm Sun
Ford or Chevy?: Chevy
Indoors or Outdoors?: Indoors
Camping or fishing?: Fishing
Silver jewelry or gold jewelry?: Platnium otherwise Gold
or Pie?:
Leather Seats or Cloth Seats?: Cloth Seats
Dog or Cat?: Dog
~How Many~
Funerals Have You Attended?: 2
Concerts Have You Been Tst?: 1
Times Has Your Heart Been Broken?: 1
Weddings Have You Been To?: 2
Times Have You Cried?: Umm
States Have You Visited?: 7
~Future~
Want to Get Married?: Yes
Want to Have Kids?: If my wife makes me! (Yes)
If So, How Many?: 2
Do You Have Their Names Already Picked Out?: 1 of them
Any Place You Want to Visit Before You Die?: Egypt & Rome
Any Goals/Dreams/Aspirations?: Too many to list
~Do you beleive in~ Ghosts?: Umm not really
Aliens/UFO's?: Doesnt every body?
Psychics?: No
Astrology?: Not really
Soulmates?: Use to, Not anymore
Love at First Sight?: Infatuation at first sight
Karma?: 4 Sure!
~In a BF/GF~
Preferred Eye Color?: Any
Hair Color?: Any
Hair Length?: Shoulder+
Ideal Personality:: Fun and Smart
Preferred Clothing Style:: Well Balanced
Weight?: 125-135 (really depends on height)
Height?: 5"2 to 5"5
Any Turnoffs?: Big Stomaches
Which is More Important, Looks or Personality?: Personality
~Do You Like~
To Snuggle?: Love to!
To Be Tickled?: Only by a person I would snuggle with.
To Dance?: Working on learning. Sad I know...
To Sing?: To myself.
To Play Pranks on People?: Not too often.
To Laugh?: As much as possible!
Telling Jokes?: Sometimes.
Being The Center of Attention?: Depends...
Standing Out in The Rain?: Not against it.
Playing in the Snow?: Yes

Music:

I love all types of music but my favorite would have to be R&B. While I am working out I definitely have to have my DownSouth and Rock music on to give me that extra boost of energy!

Movies:

Going to the movies is one of my favorite things to do. My DVD colection is pretty ridiculous also...lol I love Action and Scary movies but you will also catch me at alot of "Chic Flicks" also. A good Romantic comedy is always my first choice for a date. I love to laugh so funny movies are always some of my favorites.

Television:

I watch the news at least twice everyday (better than most movies in my opinion) and some reality shows here and there. CSI, Law & Order, Friends, My Wife and Kids, The HILLS, Nip Tuck, The Learning & Discovery channel, That 70's Show and Will&Grace are some of my favorites.

Heroes:

My Blog

4 for the Fourth of July

As I begin to type this blog I realize that it has been Quite A While since I have posted a blog...Work and Life sure do keep you busy if you know what I mean! Recently I have just been reading my Ex ...
Posted by You have Arrived at your Destination! on Sun, 01 Jul 2007 12:15:00 PST

10 ways to make sure a Man never Commits to You

--> While reading my Ex-Wife's (Nikki Giobloggi) latest blog "BLAH BLAH BLAH" (No that's really the title of her blog "Blah Blah Blah") She had a list of things "Men Should Not Do If they are Not Feel...
Posted by You have Arrived at your Destination! on Fri, 06 Apr 2007 01:54:00 PST

Cheat Like James Bond!

(This blog was inspired after reading "Are Men More Prone to Cheat than Women" posted by Kornika. It is a great blog so check it out if you have not already!)Its seems like everytime I read a blog abo...
Posted by You have Arrived at your Destination! on Sun, 25 Mar 2007 02:59:00 PST

Pet Dating Etiquette&

-->Inspired by 2 very different women&(Both with pets of course!!!) (Yes I am talking about you :)) Ok on to the blog we go!! I know there are many people who have Pets. By pets I am referring mainly ...
Posted by You have Arrived at your Destination! on Sun, 18 Mar 2007 02:33:00 PST

Difficult to date:

One of my really close female friends told me that she thinks I am a very difficult person to date (much less get to the point of marriage) and that the things I expect out of a woman/relationship are...
Posted by You have Arrived at your Destination! on Sun, 25 Feb 2007 02:00:00 PST

One Too Many "Sorrys"

Knowing when it is time to "let a relationship go" seems to be a problem for both men and women. If it is a new relationship (under 1-4 months) and the person is messing up already that makes it a lit...
Posted by You have Arrived at your Destination! on Mon, 04 Sep 2006 01:21:00 PST

Meeting The Parents

This is to address the women who think they deserve to "meet the parents" in a short period of time.   It amazes me when I am dating a girl for 4 months (or less sometimes), we are laying in bed ...
Posted by You have Arrived at your Destination! on Tue, 29 Aug 2006 04:22:00 PST