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Petra

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships and Friends

About Me

My name is Petra. It means 'rock'. I am a writer in all manners of the art. Some of my poems have even been published and I am currently working on a novel.

I know who I am and am happy with the way I have turned out even if other are not. I live my life as I see fit and invite only those who are similarly inclined to my way of thinking into my life. I use any means to achieve my ends and I do not regret the decisions I've made. I look upon my mistakes with fondness and try to learn from them as best I can. I am proud of every scar I bear both physically and emotionally because I believe that they tell my story better than any words I could write in ink or type.

Honesty is a trait I hold in the highest regard and that so being, I think I just might be the most honest person you might ever hope to meet. As such, I have been seen as blunt, tactless and even rude to people who do not know me well, nor have any stomach for the truth. If you don't want my honest opinion on a subject, don't ask. For my honest nature I expect only honesty in return. I find a brutal truth less harmful than a pretty lie in the long run and would much rather have the former to dwell over.

I am a realist with pessimistic tendencies and I have no use for the foolishly optimistic. If you want to live in a world painted with rainbows and inhabited by fluffy pink bunnies, be my guest but don't drag me into it. I am stubborn to a fault and have been known on more than one occasion to fire off my snarky sarcasm. If you don't like it, tough, I care not.

But enough on my negative aspects, shall we venture onto the more lighter side of my personality, and yes, a lighter side does exist though it is shown more rarely. I fancy myself a fierce and loyal friend and so far, I have heard no evidence to the contrary. Once you have my trust, I shall be with you through thick and thin and help you to the best of my abilities. Also, if I hear tale of a wrong-doing to one that I love I seek retribution for that act and I do not rest until I have seen it fulfilled. I have also been blessed with the gift of good humor and I use it well, or so I have been told by those dear to me.

On the topic of love, I shall admit that I have been rather unlucky in that venture as it is quite hard for me to open up in any given social situation, especially if that social situation involves the attendance of attractive young males. In the opposite sex I find green eyes the most alluring especially when accompanied by dark hair, a charming smile and an aptitude for the arts. I have also discovered of late that I am partial to those born under the sign of Pisces.

Things I love: Writing, good books, good music, good movies, the company of my best mates, cats, leopards, ravens, animals in general, England and the English culture, Harry Potter, the Anita Blake novels, sushi, coffee, tea, rain, the colours green, silver, black and red, Halloween, autumn and the idea of soul-mates.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Someone to fall asleep next to who will wrap their arms around me and make me feel safe. Someone who will show me that I really am beautiful with only a look in their eyes. Someone who will love me for me and never want me to change, even with all my weird hopes and desires. Someone who can make me smile simply because they looked at me. In short, someone to love my ironies.


Also, please message me before you try to "friend" me and if I think you're worth my time and energy, I'll add you. If I don't add you, deal with it and don't keep trying. Also, for you males out there, if you message me with anything like, "Hey I think ur hawt and I wanted to holla atcha," you lose by default. I speak English, nothing more, nothing less and I advise you to do the same. And I'll be quite honest with you, I'm shallow so if you don't interest me, I'll deny you. That being said, good luck trying to get to know me, you'll need it, I'm sure.

My Blog

Comic Con disaster, Youtube Twilighters and Harry Potter

First, I must say that my Comic Con trip was an epic disaster.  The only upsides: my companions, the Twilight poster I scored, and briefly locking eyes with Torchwood's Gareth David-Lloyd (Ianto ...
Posted by on Sat, 26 Jul 2008 06:24:00 GMT

Best Day Ever!

So, when I found out that Twilight, one of my favorite book series ever was filming in LA, I nearly died.  When I found out it was filming in none other than Valencia, only 30 minuets away from m...
Posted by on Wed, 30 Apr 2008 15:05:00 GMT

Farther Away

Farther Away:   Beating myself black and blue And still I never seem to reach you I've tried so hard to get to you But you just keep falling Farther away Come back home I'm calling Come back hom...
Posted by on Thu, 10 May 2007 00:20:00 GMT

I Need You Here

So today we did something that set off this old hurt again. Don't know why we did it, really, we just did. It seemed like a good idea at the time. When we got there however, that familiar feeling cre...
Posted by on Thu, 19 Apr 2007 23:40:00 GMT

Truths

This is the 15 truths for 15 people: 1) I love you so damn much it hurts. I also hate you. I hate the way you never notice me. I hate it when you ignore me. I hate how you never appreciate just h...
Posted by on Mon, 19 Mar 2007 23:45:00 GMT

OMFG I found my BFF from middle school!!!!!

It's true. I found my best friend from middle school today.  I have missed that girl for soooooo long.  I'm so excited that I found her.  We haven't seen each other since graduation!&nb...
Posted by on Thu, 01 Feb 2007 03:35:00 GMT

Pack

It's 2:57 A.M. and I'm sitting here in my room, alone and very awake and also cold, (there's quite a draft coming from my window which, conveniently, is where my computer is located next to ...
Posted by on Tue, 16 Jan 2007 02:57:00 GMT

Not enough

I'm just not good enough....am I?  I'm the one you fuck but don't date...I'm the one you pass over in the crowd...I'm just not good e-fucking-nough, am I?  Pass me up....whatever, i just don...
Posted by on Thu, 11 Jan 2007 01:54:00 GMT

In Return

In Return: I'm so tired of being alone I'm just so, so tired of being alone What is so wrong with me That I can't find someone? What is so wrong with me? All of my friends have their lovers All of my...
Posted by on Sun, 07 Jan 2007 22:19:00 GMT

Bring You Down

Bring You Down   My honesty is all for not If you paint me the bad guy I'll gladly play the part But take heed, dear heart If you piss me off You will surely pay the price And you've raised the ...
Posted by on Tue, 02 Jan 2007 23:23:00 GMT