Happy and Loved

Well...me and Eric have been married for over 10 hellacious and wonderful years (wow) and yea sometimes it is rough - but marriage isn't easy.
We have lived in Georgia for almost 3 years now - and the weather is crazy, the people are crazy and so is everything else. Eric's job involves him traveling alot - to teach other soldiers, whatever that entails - who knows. This year he is expected to be gone almost all year long - he will be home for 4 weeks in between each teach (for a total of 3 mths) - yay me. Right now he is getting ready to go to Kansas (Go 1st ID) until May, while me and the kids stay in Georgia.
I am normally a friendly and outgoing kind of person, with a huge temper and a very short fuse - All it takes is the right kind of person to set me off - normally little bitches that think that they can get away with whatever they want and think that I am going to roll over and play dead. Sometimes it is just people who do stupid shit all the time. I do not handle people messing with what belongs to me - regardless of what it is - or how it got started. My suggestion would be to "Get your head on straight - so I can knock it off" or something like that. I am not a person who likes drama - but it normally finds me where ever I am. I really don't like two faced people or people who start drama by playing he said she said - If that is you - GO AWAY!! My life is filled to the brim with excitement and I don't need that kind. Although it does make for really good pillow talk with my husband.
I don't have time for people who say they are my friends, but when the going gets tough - so do they - I do not care for fakers at all. If all you care about is yourself - than you need to seriously look at your life and than go jump in a lake. I am the kind of person - should you need help with something, I will help you - although it normally ends up hurting me in the end. If you are truly a friend of mine, than you give back as much as I do - I have been called lots of things - but normally from people I have helped and then hurt me. I am truly grateful for those of you that have stood by me - no matter what.
I can say that I am the proud mother of 4 children - and they keep me on my toes. I am by no means the most perfect mom - but since they don't come with instruction manuals - I do what I think is right for my kids - I don't do what other people expect me to, since they aren't the mother of my children. They can do their thing with their kids. When they have walked a mile in my shoes, than they can preach to me about what I am doing right or wrong with my family. They don't have to agree with my decisions nor do I have to agree with theirs - but if you don't have kids or don't have four kids - please keep your opinions about my childrearing to yourself. My family has helped Eric and I through some very rough patches - I am very thankful that our families have helped us stay together.
I am also the very proud wife of a soldier - a soldier who has been through hell and back, and I will continue to support him and our troops - no matter what.