RAQuelle Kel - ProfilesArchive

About Me

I am a loyal, honest, respectful, easy going person and at times I can be very corny...I love to laugh and make people laugh. Once I am comfortable around others, I can be pretty silly or I can be really quite and just be an observer/people watcher. Some people would say that I can be nosey and granted at times I can be, I just genuinely like to learn about people and what makes them them. I love LOVE and being in a relationship, being devoted and dedicated to someone. Sometimes it takes trials & tribulations to figure out what you really want but in the end, everything falls into place. This past year I have learned that rejection isn't about you as much as it is about what someone else wants and them not thinking you can give it to them. I also learned that being vulnerable and completely honest makes life so much easier, though it isn't always easy because you are most likely going to be the only one to put yourself out there but it just becomes easier and easier...like a way of life but I also realize that not everyone can handle honesty, unless it is what they want to hear, so not everyone appreciates it. The most important thing that I have learned is that GOD is REALLY REALLY GREAT and that all you have to do is believe, have faith and give it all to him and he will take care of you and lead you down the right path...God ALWAYS has a plan for you, even when you don't.

My Interests

Let's see, I enjoy spending time with my family, friends and my special someone. I love to travel, go shopping, out to eat, the movies, concerts and shows but I also can be just chillin at home with a good book or mag and of course watching whatever shows my DVR recorded. David, this will ALWAYS be you!
Your Love Quote
Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies. What Love Quote Suits You?

I'd like to meet:

I REALLY love the person I am with and look forward to spending the rest of my life with him...if it is in God's plan for me, if not I am thankful for whatever reason he is in my life...I know he was sent for a reason. So, I am not looking to meet anyone to date or get to know on that level, though I do like meeting people and trying to figure what folks are all about. I also don't mind networking with people, I probably know someone that can help you out and maybe you know someone that can help me out. All that I ask is that if you request me, be respectful of me as I would of you and you can be sure that I will definitely peep you out before approving you. Folks I wouldn't mind meeting:

Music:

I love music...R&B, neo soul, hip hop, rap, 70's & 80's music. I grew up on hip hop, so I will always have a love for it, no matter how old I get. And even though I can't understand all of it...I love Mariachi music, especially the all female Mariachi groups.One of my favorite artist is Mary J. Blige, I have much love and admiration for this woman...I feel like I have grown right along with her.I really love the generation that I grew up in; when hip hop was just starting up and they said it wouldn't last, when we had to go to AM to hear K-DAY, when R & B folks could acutally sing (ok there are a few out there now that can)for example, this guy...Robin Thicke

Movies:

Just to name a few, some of my favs...Love Jones, A Bronx Tale, Along Came Polly, Friday, Meet the Parents, Ray, Lord of the Rings, The Godfather

Television:

The Apprentice, The Amazing Race, Survivor, Big Brother, Real World, Road Rules, America's Next Top Model, The Girls Next Door and the list goes on. I am a BIG fan of Grey's Anatomy

Books:

Ok, I like to read and read as much as I can when time permits. I always try to read the Bible but I am not as consistent as I would like to be. One of my favorite books is The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield, after reading it, it changed the way I think and made me look harder at why things happen and why people come into my life.

Heroes:

GOD, because even though I was short on faith,he has never given up on me and I know he is about to bless me in abundance. My dearest friends and family because at one time or other, they have rescued me in my time of need. David, he has been my love, friend, protector, provider, teacher, student, my shoulder to lean on and at times my very own Superman. For all he has sacraficed of himself I am a better person, not just for me but for others as well. I will be FOREVER grateful. People who volunteer their time for the less fortunate, anyone and everyone that has ever struggled with something and thought they couldn't overcome but did!

My Blog

Who am I

Who am I??? I am a beautiful imperfect human being...like everyone else. Each of us unique in our own way, each of us to be who we are with help from our childhood and upbringing, sculpted...
Posted by RAQuelle Kel on Mon, 07 May 2007 10:23:00 PST

Just Let It Go

I came across this on someone else's page and it had such an affect on me, that I just had to repost and share. If there are things that you know or feel that just aren't right or people you...
Posted by RAQuelle Kel on Mon, 18 Sep 2006 11:49:00 PST

The affects of....

When you aren't near... I miss you and instantly search for an article of your clothing that has yet to be washed, I long for the comforting scent of your essence from clothes that ...
Posted by RAQuelle Kel on Fri, 15 Sep 2006 10:32:00 PST

Letting Go

I came across this poem and made me think of how hard it is to let go of relationships of all kinds, something I am all too well familiar with. We have all been there before whether it was with someon...
Posted by RAQuelle Kel on Tue, 25 Jul 2006 02:48:00 PST

Not my words but my thoughts...

Lately thoughts have popped up in my head about certain words that pertain to my life (that word, being one of them) and so I decided that I wanted to look up these words in t...
Posted by RAQuelle Kel on Fri, 30 Jun 2006 04:19:00 PST

Hmm....

I try not to have expecations of others because I believe that expectations = disappointments but I somehow always feel let down or disappointed by others, then I have a hard time telling people that ...
Posted by RAQuelle Kel on Thu, 08 Jun 2006 12:08:00 PST

It's not easy...

This was sent to me and I thought it was worth sharing. If you can relate to this because you always try your best to be a good person than let's say it together..."It's not easy" It's Not Easy by Mic...
Posted by RAQuelle Kel on Thu, 04 May 2006 10:15:00 PST

Planting Your Life Garden

WOW...I came across this and thought how could I not share, if we all could just follow this maybe the world could be a better place and all people would just be a joy to be around. PLANT THREE ROWS ...
Posted by RAQuelle Kel on Thu, 06 Apr 2006 01:38:00 PST

Choosing to be Single or in a Relationship

I came across this and found it to hold some truth, when deciding if we want to be single or in a relationship...it is a reminder that YOU know what is best for YOU and where YOU are at...
Posted by RAQuelle Kel on Wed, 22 Feb 2006 09:53:00 PST

10 Ways to Improve Relationships

1. The relationships you foster will become a mirror of the relationship you have with yourself. Francois de la Rochefoucauld said, "If we are incapable of finding peace in ourselves, it is pointless ...
Posted by RAQuelle Kel on Wed, 30 Nov 2005 11:49:00 PST