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BUTTERfly

I'll treat you the way you treat me. Respect is earned, not given. If I act like there's no respect,

About Me


Ok, so here's the deal: I try to view LIFE the same way I view things while driving my car. I got the windshield in front of me and it's wide open space - that is what I deem as my future and that is what I'm concerned with. Then, I got the little rearview mirror that I glance up into once in a while to just do a quick check to see what I left behind, but it's not really relevant anymore - that is what I call my past. BUT, most importantly, I have to remember that I gotta keep my eyes focused through my windshield because I might crash or hit a bump that I may have to dodge and as long as I can see something coming, it won't hurt as bad and I'll be prepared. SO...I gotta keep looking through that windshield to get to where I wanna go - as it's only me who's in the driver's seat....Oh! And some good music blasting along the way can't hurt, right?? Because to me, music is the key to an open soul - it makes you feel things that you normally wouldn't know you could feel in silence - good or bad, it's all very humanistic. Screw all the complicated stuff...just keep it real and simple - you can't really go wrong that way.
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I love to laugh, dance, and have a good time, I love movies, partying, traveling, working out, cooking, shopping, my career, spontaneous moments, stability, quality time with girlfriends. Being around real people and having great times, making positive memories. All in all, I'm up for anything and interested in everything. Self development and discovery is key.

I'd like to meet:

Yo Momma and the Jolly Green Giant... :-)

Music:

R&B, Jazz/Blues, Hip-Hop, anything soulful and chill....love old skool tunes. Oh, and some pop music....

Movies:

Love 'em ALL.

Television:

Grey's Anatomy, Desperate Housewives, Ugly Betty, House, Brothers and Sisters, Fashion House....the list goes on...pretty much anything around 9-11pm....that's the only time the TV is on!

Books:

Usually, whatever someone recommends to me.

Heroes:

My Parents.

My Blog

My view on relationships....maybe you'll figure me out after all....

YOU OPENED IT.. NOW YOU HAVE TO DO IT .. AND BE HONEST1) Single, Taken, or Flirty?Single and Flirty....just haven't found the right one to inspire me...but there's no doubt that I'm single....and flir...
Posted by BUTTERfly on Thu, 31 May 2007 12:00:00 PST

Sharing my lonely moment...

I just survived the loneliest moment ever in my life so far. I got called into work at 1:15am. There's a patient here at my work that I've visited for about a month everyday during my work days. I cal...
Posted by BUTTERfly on Fri, 26 Jan 2007 03:01:00 PST

A Lesson in Life

A Lesson in LifeEverything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test...
Posted by BUTTERfly on Tue, 02 Jan 2007 05:20:00 PST

I've HIT that point....uggggghhhhh.....

It's the end of the day, and when I should be winding down....I feel like I'm more wound up inside that anxiety isn't even in the same category of how I'm feeling. My insides hurt and I'm having one...
Posted by BUTTERfly on Wed, 29 Nov 2006 11:44:00 PST