Must be attractive, fun loving, good sense of humor. Need a woman that wants to enjoy life, can carry on a 3 hour conversation over a fine dinner without constantly mentioning what a terrible past she has had. She must want to live in the present and look forward to the future. If you are not affectionate, don't bother me. I want lots of TLC, and I certainly don't mind reciprocating. I love finding out her desires, whether its traveling to great places, intimacy, what makes her feel great, etc. Then I take it as a challenge to make those wishes come true. Therefore communication is a necessity. I want a woman who is not afraid to tell me what she wants.