someone that will make a difference in my life"After awhile you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul and you learn that love does not mean hugs and kisses are contracts, and presents aren't promises and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes ahead. With the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child, and you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain, for plans and futures have a way of falling down in flight, after awhile you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much, so you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers, and you learn that you really can endure, that you really are strong, and you really do have worth, and you learn. With every goodbye you learn."