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I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships and Friends

About Me

found this fantasy layout at HOT FreeLayouts.com So here I am sitting alone in front of my computer screen wondering what you would like to know about me. Here it is: I am 41, somewhat educated, intelligent, smart, (yes, there is a difference), worldly yet not too much into attachments, easily amused, and can amuse, I am a writer of essays and poetry, an aspiring chef, and a former CDF Firefighter, four sons (21,20,16,15) they are everything to me, but they live in Idaho, I live on family property in a house passed down from my grandparents, delivered my 3rd son in this house, parents have very large house on the property next door, been divorced for 12 years, marriage again? (dunno), country boy born and raised, strong ties to community, family business, don’t smoke, don’t drink at home, play the drums, jam session with cousin’s garage band, clean-up well, can tie a tie, but usually wear jeans, glasses (hate contacts), alone but not lonely.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Who I would like: someone who ‘gets me’, not just understands, independent, but not aloof, has their own sense of self, strong, mentally and physically, looks good dressed up, but not afraid to grunge out for a few days while camping, wants a family, has family, close to family, loves being around family, (get it?) your family is as important to me as you are, family is for life, self made, secure, not needy yet has needs, and most of all, be able to carry on a conservation, you must communicate, up front, subtle, verbal, physical, emotional, show all your sides freely, don’t hold back, speak your mind ,social drink, no smoke, appreciate art, or be willing to learn, not be afraid to eat in front of a man, I am a chef and I like to see you eat.

My Blog

A Dedication for Life

   You have seen me through adversity, its time has run its course. My strength and faith never waivered, due to your unseen force. Tests and trials thrown at me, endured and put to right. My path lie...
Posted by on Mon, 10 Aug 2009 17:07:00 GMT

Life Music

The sounds of the world come to me as beautiful lyrics in a symphony of illusion. I interpret each note on it's own merit. The sounds of nature are the base line from which all others stem from. The h...
Posted by on Mon, 27 Oct 2008 08:59:00 GMT

Basking in the Sunshine 0:-)

It is for the promise of sunshine that we endure the rain.      Our lives are met daily with obstacles and adversities. How we each tend to them is as individualistic as each of ou...
Posted by on Sun, 11 May 2008 01:34:00 GMT

Go Out and Play

Those Born 1920-1979 READ TO THE BOTTOM FOR QUOTE OF THE MONTH BY JAY LENO. ---VERY WELL STATED TO ALL THE KIDS WHO SURVIVED the 1920's, 30's, 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's!! First, we survived being born...
Posted by on Mon, 02 Jul 2007 23:38:00 GMT

The Tragedy

    I want to write words of optimism in an otherwise chaotic world. I seek out those that support me in my quest for betterment. To be as one in an un-united world is to be alone among...
Posted by on Thu, 19 Apr 2007 01:59:00 GMT

Three at once

Night FlightYou pierce m dreams with talons, like those of a powerful raptor.You grab hold and take me to never before known heights.You keep me aloft on the wings of a Great Eagle.You place me in you...
Posted by on Sat, 06 Jan 2007 20:51:00 GMT

Begin again

Fresh StartIt is so much easier to talk about pain, than the joys in our lifeBecause it seems to have more impact, we're overwhelmed by strifeOur bad times stick in our thoughts, they remind us of bei...
Posted by on Sat, 06 Jan 2007 20:34:00 GMT

Starring......

Curtain Call Life is just a show and we all play our parts. Each of us has our lines and place on the stage. But, we are only given one page to act out at a time. We read through it and then a...
Posted by on Sat, 06 Jan 2007 20:31:00 GMT

Moving on

Shaping The FutureLove is worth the risk of loss. Anger harms no one more than he who harbors it. Both bitterness and true happiness are choices that we make, not conditions that fall upon us from the...
Posted by on Sat, 06 Jan 2007 20:12:00 GMT

Preparations for a better life

An Article On Life for 2007By John 'manofthought'VALUE What has 'real' value? Is it something that can be held? I don't think so. I think that a life lived worthwhile is the most valuable thing we can...
Posted by on Fri, 05 Jan 2007 01:54:00 GMT