I believe that each person has one soul mate in life; we search endlessly and deal with several individuals before we find that person. Sometimes we find that person but the timing is not right and we have to wait until God determines that the time is right.You may ask, "how will I know?" I believe that I will feel it in their touch and in their kiss. The sound of their voice will give me "butterflies". To coin "Dairy of a Mad Black Woman", I will carry them in my spirit. I will pray for them more than I pray for myself.What am I looking for.... I am looking for perfection! What does that mean?I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don..t need a simple minded man.I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don..t need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don..t need a financial burden.I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who is not taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive....he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can..t help a man if he can't help himself.If you are an honest man... (Notice that I said man), with genuine honesty and integrity, and are striving for perfection, then hit me up. If you are looking for getting into my spot...keep traveling!