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About Me

About me? Which is more real? The ever changing me that I know to be real, or the me you perceive to be real? Neither? Both!Identity is an illusion.I embrace all aspects of humanity. Humans are not designed to be perfect. being too perfect is just as bad as not being good enough. if all humanity is made flawed, then being flawless would be a flaw in itself.I believe in the big picture. i believe that everything that happens is necessary for us to become who we are eventually going to become. life is chaotic and meaningless, however, it does not mean it can't be learned from. There should always be lessons, but never regrets."Theres no such thing as the perfect soul mate...If u meet someone and u think their perfect, u better run as fast as u can in the other direction...Cause ur Soulmate is the person who pushes ALL ur buttons, pisses u off on a regular basis, and makes u face all ur shit...Easy doesn't make u grow, EASY doesnt make u think..." Seriously now. But (Aside from friends) As far as "Who I'd like to meet" First off, I'm almost certain that I have found the man of my dreams. People have this misconstrued idea that since I typically have been in longterm relationships that I need someone. Not the case. However, I have found my other half. LOL I hate to sound cliche. I really do. Its hard to explain myself without it coming across that way. I know most people are looking for the same qualities in the person they are with. Basically, I want someone who I can be sarcastic and joke around with. Someone who is strong and Secure. Someone who challenges me and is thought provoking. I want someone who pisses me off. Well, you know what I mean. Someone who can handle my flaws and perhaps, even love me more for them.View All Friends | View Blog | Add Comment
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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Uhmm........................................................ ............................................................ ....................................KATE MOSS...Hedi Slimane........ and.........people that are not rude, who are honest, with good intentions, positive attitudes, cool, hip, trendy, unique, interesting but not weird, creative, intelligent, scrabble lovers, gay male models (i really don't know any), witty, & anyone interested or intrigued by my profile or photographs....................................... ............................................................ .......................... People I don't wish to associate with: USERS, free loaders, people with bad breath, gay men who are too intouched with the girlie side, men over 60(unless they're planning to buy me an island), fakesters, constant liars (it's ok to fib once in a while)........other then that, I'm pretty much open to many anyone. Just don't be some krazed maniac... :) Matt, You always have a place in my heart.God determines who walks into your life. You decide who you let walk out, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go." ~I am one of those who would rather sink with faith, than swim without it!~

My Blog

My Affirmation!!

  I've always known that I am supposed to be here, and am exactly on track to accomplish my purpose. My past is absolutely no indication of what my future will be.  It is simply the history...
Posted by on Thu, 08 Nov 2007 10:08:00 GMT

HIM

HimI'll always remember Him Think about Him Miss Him Hate Him Love Him Feel as if I was never good enough for Him Know that my love was too good Him I wonder how long it will take me to get over Him?...
Posted by on Sun, 22 Apr 2007 23:18:00 GMT

John's Words of Wisdom

A time comes in your life when you finally get it. You realize it's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness. You realize that in the real world there aren't always fa...
Posted by on Mon, 29 Jan 2007 22:29:00 GMT

UGH

*There comes a time in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, and who always will, So don't worry about people from your past. There's a reason they didn't make it to your future.*
Posted by on Wed, 06 Dec 2006 11:53:00 GMT

Worlds AIDS Day

World AIDS Day http://www.worldaidsday.org/default.asp Many people are living with HIV and AIDS throughout the world, some may even be friends and loved ones... Please show your support today
Posted by on Fri, 01 Dec 2006 06:22:00 GMT

My Journey's + My Friends = Who I am

Webster's Define journey as ; Journey (j&r-nE) something suggesting travel or passage of time from one place to another. This all started because I wanted to change my web page but, I just wanted ...
Posted by on Fri, 18 Aug 2006 00:07:00 GMT

IDENTITY = CODES

The "Conquerer" stands behind a portal made of gold and diamonds. Through the key-hole, the eye observes me. I on the other side, with crystal-clear eyes, saw through what was really a gate of glass; ...
Posted by on Thu, 17 Aug 2006 23:39:00 GMT