Afra

Hello Everybody!
Wow, the things you do for internet lol. I been without it for way to many hours, but I'm here now at Kinko's using it even it will cost me 0.20 cents a minute I don't care, had to come and check, by the way I'm about to create a new email, my email account been tripping hard so no sense to even mess with it. I will have it at yahoo and it will be [email protected] hahaha. Please email me there ok? Thank you very much!!! I'm still not home but you will know when I make it there. I wish all of you have a wonderful week and weekend!!! Take care, much love, AFRA
I was born on 01/04/1969 in the castle country of Germany / City of Bad Duerkheim and raised by my grandparents (father's side of the family) in Germany / Worms close to Mannheim. I have two brothers name Veit and Sven . The person that knows it "ALL" is my aunt Heidi she is the only one that knows everything about me without a doubt. She been the mother figure in my life since my grandmother passed on. She is my inspiration, advisor in need and I look up to her and have the up most respect for her.
Get Your Own Voice Player Manage
About me huh? Well there is actually a lot to say but not sure if I want to share everything lol. I'm an animal lover and been rescuing mostly dogs since 2002 in my private rescue shelter. I am a redheaded witch at times lol, that's what they say, but got a real nice, helpful and loyal part to me also. If I let you get close enough you will find out about me. Once I am your friend, you really got a friend for life. I'm outgoing and a good listener because everybody needs someone to talk to once in a while and nowadays it is hard to trust people and so we keep things inside which is not very healthy.
I moved to the USA in 1991 because I had gotten married to an American citizen, but things did not work out, so I had to let this one go. I can't deal with people that are selfish and don't want to help distribute to the household and want to play around. I got my mind set and I don't expect a lot but let's be real about it, both husband and wife gotta give their part in a marriage not just one. But as I always say there is someone for everyone but it seems the wrong people run into each other or some people realize to late that they lost a good thing.
Love to get to know new people regardless of their looks, wealth, culture, tradition, skin complexion or their sexual preference. So please if you are one of those hating or racist people, please don't waste your time or mine, because I got no time for you. I will listen to anything you have to say and will respect your opinions and beliefs, but please don't try or push me into changing what I believe in. I love people and I love animals and nobody ever can influence the way I feel and I hope God will still bless you, since he does not see any difference in human kind.
I get along with almost everybody but don't lie or play games with me I got an allergy against that and if provoked I can be the total opposite of what I'm usually are, gotta be that red hair lol. It takes a lot to make me mad, one good example would be to keep on repeating doing the same thing when you know I don't like it. I don't care for arguing but if I have to you will have a major competition, especially when I know you are in the wrong. I like talking things out better or investigate if I have to and usually that is how things work out for me, but there are times when stuff is unavoidable you feel me? Either I am your friend or your enemy no in between!!!
I am a straight forward person which is not always a good thing, because people feelings get hurt, but I can also take critizism depending how I get approached and what it is about. There ain't no problem to pull me to the side and tell me what you think, but don't try to embarras me in front of anybody that is like a bull seeing a red cover. If you respect me I will do the same in return.
I am a person that will go out of her way to help anybody and does expect nothing in return. If I do something for you that means I did it because I wanted to and it most defenitely comes from the heart. If I got it and you need it more than me you can have it, but do not try to play these little games with me and try to get me for what you want and not need, very bad idea, because I am not a fool or sucker for anybody and trust me if I need to know something before I do a good deed I will do that prior before anything else to make sure things are in order.
Usually you will see a happy and inspiring person in me, but there are some times, when even I have a lot to deal with and I get quiet and don't want to be around people at all. Everybody had their shares of ups and downs so did I and what is better to have a close friend to talk to, that brings me to the two main people, that are personally in my life - Christine and Wesley which I love to death.
HTmate
MySpaceNow
Nuclearcentury
MyMackSpace
Codeshell
SpacePimp
123MyCodes
KawaiiSpace
KillerKiwi
FreeCodeSource
MySpacePimper
CompleteMySpace
FussyCodes
If you need to convert images, load them up in here (from jpg, gif and all) converted to HTML code, that you can paste in any webpage, comment section or anywhere that reads HTML. It will also give you as second choice the picture url for other purposes like backgrounds and creating links.
Click Here To Send A Detailed Message To My Email !!!
Personally I am an optimist and also realist, I don't take the side of any gender because I know we all make mistakes, but common you know what is right or wrong so act like an adult and do the right thing. A lot of stress from unwanted drama we bring on ourselves. I do it sometimes too, but always hope to learn from it and make a better decision the next time around. It is always a blessing to have real friends that stand by you in the time of need and support you, no matter what way you choose to go and won't hold it over your head if you made a bad decision. Besides the personal friends I got in my life there are some myspace friends that are really wonderful and indeed some real good people and I appreciate you a lot and have much love and respect for you!!!
Get rid off this hit-it and quit-it mind set and the 3 minute 46 seconds courtship that is popularized by todays media and music also. You might find the right woman for yourself earlier than expected applying the right approaches and tools. Winning over a lady is a matter of knowing! Most of you forget to romance, don't push her around, instead push her buttons and charm the woman that you trying to impress, unfortunately you impress a lot of times in the wrong ways. Just stick with the basics they really work!!! To the guys that hit their women you really are a cowart in my eyes. Hit someone your own size and strenght. Be nice and especially be original don't be like the next man. Show sensitivity, it is not a crime and it does not make you look weak either. Sometimes turning a woman on can be as simple as pushing her caring button to let her know that you are sincere about her needs and wants. Let her know that you are on the same page as her, that she can talk to you and confide in you, let her know that you are hers and hers alone and act like it also lol. Many men fail to realize that only when a woman feels that a man is worthy of her love and trust will she open up to him. It's not about making demands. It's about making her feel that you are interested in her and care about her. Don't you know it's the thrill of the chase, a give and take that has formed the basis for courtships for generations, but somewhere down the way men got lazy and woman let them get lazy. The result is the lack of serious and long term relationships. Some stuff above applies also to woman!!!
Stop trying to hold on to something that is not worth holding on to. Don't get pregnant thinking you going to keep the man, because a baby can't fix your relationship or get a man to marry you. Do your own thing don't be dependent on no male, they come and they go half of the time. If you have a good man treat him like a king and he'll treat you like his queen. I know there are some women bold enough to hit a man. Well I'm like this you never know what you got coming your way so you better be prepared or think before you act. Stop thinking that because you show skin you are more wanted, some men look at women negative representing themselves in certain ways. For the majority it is more interesting to the other sex when you are covered up and get his curiosity going. He thinks what is could or should be under those clothes lol. Stop nagging and downing him so much, (I know I use to do it too lol), stand by your man or you going to push him away from you and half of the time into another woman's arms. Show your support even when things are not that great but they will get better eventually. With to much negativity you make it worse for the both of you. Make him feel special and wanted, boost that ego you know they like that lol. Communicate as much as possible it makes life easier for the relationship or family. Show him that you care and that he is the "MAN" that you adore and love the most. Some stuff here applies also to men.